okay i got this dog called milou 2 years ago i got him form the spca, he is my bf and we do all together its hard to believe i mean he even comes with me in te washroom ...if you could only see his eye there so shiny! but last month...he ran away and i was used to it cuz i lost him several times b4...but that night he didnt come back..and the next morning i was trying to change my mind...but i just couldnt! so i went for a walk in the woods.( i always go for walk,, cuz i love nature) but as i was walking ..i see something black laying on the ground ..in the woods.. in the middle of NOWHERE!! and the worst part hadnt happend yet..i was walking towards it..and as i discoverd it was my little chihuahua mix Milou!:( he got beated up..by some asshole that we'll never no ,,and now im in this depression cuz i keep seeing his face on the cold ground..and people keep telling me that .."its not the end of the world .it was just a DOG!" so what he was my bf! and someone took him away.wat can i do
2007-11-26 08:34:23 · 7 answers · asked by -xo-Cupcake<3 2 in Pets ➔ Dogs
It's always hard to lose a pet. We get so close to them and they are always around when we need them. I'm sorry you had to find your pet like that. It sounds like maybe a wild animal caught him. Hopefully he didn't suffer and that should be of some comfort to you. I lost my dog last year and I just couldn't stand being without him anymore so I found another one. I was afraid at first that I would be comparing him to the old dog too much but he has really developed his own personality and I love him as much as the one I lost. Don't be afraid to adopt another dog. There are a lot of them out there that need someone to love them.
2007-11-26 08:43:29 · answer #1 · answered by sandwest 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for your loss and do not listen to the people who say he was just a dog. I have lost several dogs and each caused me some severe depression. My dogs now I cherish and I like them way better and care way more for them than most people. Dogs are special and you can have such a strong bond with them, stronger than most any other bonds it can be devastating when you lose them. So go ahead and grieve and grieve all you want that is what you need to do. I was never able to get a new dog right away, I have always needed time to heal but I would always volunteer at the SPCA or a shelter. Being around dogs helped me to heal, they never judge you and they help you. Plus you feel real good that each day you brighten a lonely dogs day. And in time maybe you will find a new friend. But for now you have every right to be depressed and I am truly sorry you lost your best friend in such a cruel manner, it makes it worse.
2007-11-26 16:47:32 · answer #2 · answered by TritanBear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming you're reported the situation, there's not much you can do except go through the grieving process.
A good book that might help is "How to survive the loss of a love" - it's a very small book that has a lot of helpful wisdom in it, and it's a quick read.
After that, go back to the SPCA and rescue another dog.
My condolences.
2007-11-26 16:45:32 · answer #3 · answered by HyperDog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH I'm so very sorry to hear your little bf is gone. Thankfully he's not suffering anymore. When you're ready however (make sure you've come to terms with his passing...) be sure to adopt again from the SPCA. You'll find another gorgeous bf - make sure you keep tabs on his whereabouts though and be sure to walk him every day. Helps keep them close by you (they don't tend to run away). All the best !
2007-11-26 18:12:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to get it settled with yourself that Milou died. Yes it was a terrible death, but he's not in pain anymore.
Get another dog. I know you don't want another dog, you want your dog. But believe me, another dog will wiggle himself into your heart in no time, and your depression will begin to heal.
TX Mom
2007-11-26 16:45:00 · answer #5 · answered by TX Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hugs. im so sorry for your loss, i can't imagine what your'e going through, but it almost happened to me. My dog was attaked, and could have died, thank god she made it, but i sometimes imagine what i would have done if she hadn't. once again, im so sorry. Oh, and tell your friends to imagine what its like to loose their best friend, and the flick them!
2007-11-26 17:56:05 · answer #6 · answered by froggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a terrible ordeal ! What did you want to do ?
2007-11-26 16:43:08 · answer #7 · answered by Brainteaser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋