Im 5'3 and 109lbs but i look like alot more. For 4 days I was eating about 500-600 calories a day because I really wanted to lose weight. Today I couldn't take it anymore and I ate alot. Now I feel soooooooo fat. What is wrong with me? Why do I look so fat? Im really scared of gaining weight. The other day at the mall every person I saw was so skinny! Like everywhere I go theres like 10 people way skinnier than me! Omg I hate my life! Why do I have to be so fat? I think about it every single day and I hate it!
2007-11-26 08:30:46 · 10 answers · asked by Samantha 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Looks like a nice case of Bulimia Nervosa.
You need to work on rational expectations for your appearance. How old are you anyway? As you age...the body will burn those calories more slowly. You can just accept that you can't/won't/shouldn't remain slender and sexy forever.
Consider why it's so important to you. It's a good topic to go over with a therapist. If you hit an ideal weight with no fat, just how do you expect your life to be so much better?
2007-11-26 08:42:30 · answer #1 · answered by Yahoo Answer Angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is about perception. I go to the mall and I see nothing but fat people. You need to lighten up on your self and just be who you are. You are perfect in every way and all the diet stuff is messing so many people up. In our society we are told that if we don't like like a toothpick then we are fat. That is a lie to trick you do buy something you don't need to fix a problem that is manufactured by advertising people. You are fine the way you are. Change the way you think about yourself. Only you could do it. You are perfect in every way.
2007-11-26 16:38:49 · answer #2 · answered by LDB449 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got to stop obsessing about your weight and just concentrate on being healthy. You are starving your body, your brain, and you will face the consequences one day soon!. Who cares if someone else is skinnier, there is only one YOU, be an individual, see the beauty that is within you and it will shine through!
2007-11-26 16:36:05 · answer #3 · answered by CJ SWEETNESS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to tell someone before this becomes into a eating disorder that can ruin your life. i'm 4'11 and weight 115lbs. I don't look fat at all. Who cares what others look like. Seek help.
2007-11-26 17:05:34 · answer #4 · answered by Tica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you ate so much at one time your stomach blew up. when it gets digested you will go back to normal. 5'3 and 109lbs is underweight for you. because 5'0 and 115 is ideal. your not fat but eating certian foods can make you feel and look bloated, its normal.
2007-11-26 16:34:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, you're overreacting to a situation that is just not that urgent. You need to reassess how important your looks are to you, and how the world looks at you. I think you need therapy.
Skinny doesn't matter. Healthy matters.
TX Mom
2007-11-26 16:40:16 · answer #6 · answered by TX Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Cute Kitty...
Don't be food oriented.
Triangulate on other pursuits.
Seek someone professional to help you see this.
This question is your subconscious cry for help.
Listen to it.
Cure your obsession and learn to have a happy carefree life...
2007-11-26 16:43:31 · answer #7 · answered by Sereny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need help. See a doctor before you cause really bad problems for yourself. Things will only get worse.
2007-11-26 16:36:08 · answer #8 · answered by NORTH WEST 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probablly talk to someone older about your feelings because you might be suffering from anorexia...
2007-11-26 19:32:33 · answer #9 · answered by blue22op 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not fat you need to talk to soom one fat is 200 and up not you
2007-11-26 16:36:52 · answer #10 · answered by jshppr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋