I posted a question yesterday asking about what was the best way to go about finding a home for my puppies. The reasons are too complicated tp explain but they have to go. They are both 9 months old (one is a Yorkie boy and the other is a Peke Poo girl) and I just can't stop crying thinking about how they are going to miss me and wonder where I am at. I mean, I am already telling people about them and all (and I am trying to keep them together) but every time I look at their little faces I cant help but to feel incredibly bad because I am the only mommy they have known for 7 months now.
Does anyone know or have an idea about how animals cope with going into a new home? I am seriously anxious and highly depressed about this. Thanks.
2007-11-26 08:29:56 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pets ➔ Dogs
The dogs will wonder where you went but if it makes you feel better they will adjust with in a few weeks, Sorry to say even the most bonded will eventually get over an owner for another that is just as loving and doting. Anyone who feeds them will become there new best friend. There is of course some exceptions where a dog is so bonded they will refuse anyone. Those are pretty rare. Being in the shelter buisness I see it daily both sides of the issue. There isnt a good way of coping. You have to find a home and if you have exhausted all other routes in order to keep both dogs, there is nothing you can reall do about it. You will grieve for some time. It does get better with time. Hopefully you find a home they both can go to and maybe will allow you to come visit on occasion.
2007-11-26 08:35:00 · answer #1 · answered by I luv Pets 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Most animals rehome very well - as long as you take care to find good homes for them. There is a period of adjustment, but they do adjust.
Your Yorkie is a purebred and you can use a Yorkie rescue. Go to www.akc.org and look up the national breed rescue for Yorkshire terriers and contact them. They can put you in touch with the rescue group your area. Your Yorkie will most likely be kept in a foster home that way and the adjustment will be easier.
The Peke Poo is a mix and placing her may be harder. She is not a purebred, so likely you won't be able to place her unless the Yorkie rescue is willing to take them as a package deal (sometimes - not always, they will). Go to www.petfinder.com and look at shelters and rescues in your area. Contact them and find out about their relinquishment, euthaniasia and adoption policies and if they have room. Find one you are comfortable with and relinquish her there (and if you want to keep them together and Yorkshire rescue can't take both - this is an option). Private shelters screen potential owners carefully and will work hard to find good homes.
The key is finding a good new home. Once they find one, they'll be fine.
2007-11-26 16:40:00 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The most important thing here is to make sure you find a good home for the puppies. Make sure that the people taking the pups are resonsible, have the means of caring for the dogs such as money for vet bills, food, etc. and have the time to spend with the dogs. So many people take animals without realizing the time, money and effort it takes to properly raise them in a healthy, loving environment. If these guidlines are followed, the transition for the puppies should be smooth and they will be just fine.
2007-11-26 16:43:46 · answer #3 · answered by anacondastuntdouble 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry that you are losing your puppies. I can't imagine how hard this must be for you. I hope my comment will help. First you need to realize that unlike humans, dogs live in the moment; they aren't big on holding grudges or moping around because of memories. Your puppies are still young and if you are lucky enough to place them together they will be just fine. I realize it is hard for you - but if it makes you feel any better (and I hope it does) - you will miss the puppies more than they will miss you. I say this because I am sure you will place them in a wonderful loving new home where they will receive all the love and attention they deserve, and are used to from their time with you.
They will be fine. I hope you will be. Good Luck :)
2007-11-26 16:37:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
To make the transition easier, make sure that the puppies go to their new home(s) with the things that are familiar to them - the blanket they sleep on, their toys, baskets, etc. That way they can have a familiar scent around them as they settle in. Also give the new owners a full list of what they eat (brands, how much of what, etc.), and anything that you know that they don't like or can't tolerate. So if you know the dogs don't deal well with traffic noise, make sure that they go to a home in a quiet street. If they are good around children, see if you can find them a family home.
Do the best that you can for them, and then you will have peace of mind.
2007-11-26 16:39:37 · answer #5 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They will be upset for a little while as you will be but they are young enough to adapt quickly. If this is unavoidable your best bet is to try and find a local rescue. They will not only TRY to keep them together but will carefully screen all potential owners for the best home. Please NEVER advertise your dogs as free or give them to someone you don't know extremely well - you want the person who gets them to be committed to their care and well being. You might also try your vet's office and see if they will let you post a notice that other dog lover can see. You don't say what area but go to petfinder.com and put in your zip code if you'd like to see the recues in your area or just search "animal rescue + your state" on any search engine. Good Luck!
2007-11-26 16:38:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry too much.
Dogs live in the moment. At first, they will miss you, but they will adjust.
when you got them, you took them away from their first mom. they evidently survived that trauma.
this will not traumatize them.
I have adopted/rescued 2 dogs from previous homes.
they adjusted fine to their new surroundings and I have had each of them for several years.
Just focus on finding them new homes, and they will be fine.
Dogs live in the here and now, and do not live in the past. only people do this. They remember people, but do not tend to dwell on things the way humans do.
perhaps you can find homes in which you can ask to visit or just check to see how they are doing. good luck!
2007-11-26 16:36:07 · answer #7 · answered by Rochelle T 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask the new owners if you can visit her one and a while, at least your not bringing them to a pound because that would be really hard. try to not think about it as much and know that they are going to a good home. also in your spare time if you have any, try volunteering at a local animal shelter. it will help you cope. and you will be helping others too. (just something to think about doing)
2007-11-26 16:41:10 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not the answer you want to hear but they will adjust to a new life and well , you have given them a great start in life and they will be forever thank full , but if you have to let go it will be harder for you then them .If you need help re homing please visit http//:www.letsgowalkies.net/ and see links page there are some excellent welfare shelters there . Dogs needing homes are great .if you need any more help just contact and will try . Good luck hope it turns out well
2007-11-26 16:40:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
so sorry you have to give up your dogs.
don't worry about your dogs, they will settle very quickly.
i have re-homed 3 rescue dogs, they were part of the family within days!! when they go make sure they have something familiar, like their bed and toys. being so young they wont have any probs adapting, and it will be great if they can go together.
in the meantime give them loads of love, spend lots of time together and play, remember to take pictures of them. these will be special memories for YOU!! sorry i cant do anything else to help. x x x good luck
2007-11-26 16:42:31 · answer #10 · answered by little miss cavalier 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋