this is a question that i would like to be answered mostly if not all by guys. I want to know the honest truth... no sugercoating anything. I want to know how many guys on here will honestly admit to this... or protest it.
2007-11-26 05:58:38 · 14 answers · asked by doodlebug 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am not a guy, but speaking for my own guy he is faithful and committed. Not all guys are jerks. It depends on where you find your guy at, and what kind of self esteem and self worth that you have that attracts such losers to you
2007-11-26 06:02:01 · answer #1 · answered by ?? yaddajean ?? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm just one guy, but I will tell you my honest thoughts on the matter.
I do think there is something about how we're wired to have moments of lust for those who we are not with. It is hard not to notice a beautiful girl, and hard not to imagine certain scenarios playing out. I've had this occurrance throughout my life, while either in relationships or single.
I would like to clarify that this does not mean I found the girl i was with any less attractive, or that I am not happy with my significant other in any way. I just have the thoughts.
Now, that being said, I have never cheated, and never will. Thoughts can be nice, but to act upon them if I am in a relationship shows a total lack of character and backbone. It is entirely inexcusable. As I'm sure my significant other has the occassional moment of lust for another male (it is only human), but i trust her to not act upon such feelings. We ultimately have chosen one another for whatever our reasons, and there is no reason that trust should be broken. If Brad Pitt walks up and hits on her, and she feels that's something she'd like to pursue, then all she needs to do is let me know it's over between us. I'll accept the abrupt break-up LONG before I'll accept cheating.
You choose your significant other (I hope) because even after the initial attraction has died down and you're more comfortable with one another, there is still a special feeling there. And while there may be some girls or guys who come into your life while you're involved with someone else, if it comes to the point where you think you may want to be with them instead, I don't see any logic behind not just telling your original other that news. To try and cheat and get away with it is the most cowardly course of action.
So in conclusion, no, we're not all cheaters, and stop perpetuating the stereotype because you're damaging a lot of relationships by thinking that way.
2007-11-26 06:14:43 · answer #2 · answered by Drew 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think any woman that says that is alone because some guy cheated on her so she assumes all guys are cheaters and pushes the rest of us away that are not cheaters. That is like asking all women just want a man for his money. Anyone who believes all men are cheaters is a fool.
2007-11-26 06:07:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
All guys are not cheaters. There's alot of men you have yet to meet !!
In the same vein, all women are not honest or a pleasure to be around.
"Male" or "Female" has nothing to do with cheating. Unfaithfulness is established by an inner weakness.
2007-11-26 06:03:54 · answer #4 · answered by Sergio 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i have never cheated in a relationship or on someone in a relationship and never would i don't see the point. if i didn't want to be with you i would apologize for leading you on and end it. i wouldn't make a big deal out of it. and i would try to hurt the person either that's pointless that and if its a mutual thing we can still be friends.
2007-11-26 06:12:54 · answer #5 · answered by monkeymstr5 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sure - we are biologically coded to spread our genes (pun intended). And women are coded to stay with the safest secure ones, but seek out superior mates too, so they also cheat. So, why have mariage for life?
2007-11-26 06:12:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i am sorry but ...... no not really only guys who think they r to cool for you but there is a bunch of guys who'd love to take girls out on a date and have a great time
2007-11-26 16:22:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys are like that you just haven't found the good guys yet but they will come around.
2007-11-26 06:03:41 · answer #8 · answered by Lynn R 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no...i know a lot of females that have cheated 2...it depends on the person and what they want to do...
2007-11-26 06:02:56 · answer #9 · answered by lisa 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I DONT THINK SO .. I MEAN IN THIS WORLD WE GOT IT ALL .. MEN AND WOMEN ARE VERY SIMILAR AND DIFFERENT FROM EACH OTHER .. THER ARE MEN AND WOMEN WHO CHEAT .. I DONT SEE A DIFFERENCE .... I KNOW THERE ARE MEN AND WOMEN WHO HAVE CHEATED AND LEARNED THEIR LESSON.. I THINK THAT SAYIN THAT ITS JUST A STERIOTYPE...
2007-11-26 06:02:34 · answer #10 · answered by .·.¹³ LaSh3s¹³.·. 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋