usually when i go to school i get stomach aches and gas whenever im in class, i feel nervous and that i dont want t be there. In middle school it would never happen. I miss my middle school a lot since it was small and every1 was like family. I miss playing sports and going to church there too. Now that i go to a public high school i hate it. there are so many clicks and rude people. Not everyone in the class likes eachother, so many people are fake. I miss my old friends and high school.
Do u think it will go away once i graduate? Its been going on for all the years ive been there (im a senior now). This year it aint as bothersome but it comes up every now and then.
2007-11-26 04:59:17 · 17 answers · asked by Curious John 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
You will probably find that a change in your lifestyle will have psychological effects. By switching from a small scale state of the normal, to a larger scale state of the unknown, you have stepped in to no mans land, thus making you stressed. The gas and stomach aches may be stress related, these are physiological responses as your body is telling you "I don't like this stressful state". It will go as soon as you find a calming state of mind. You need to learn to adapt to surroundings, As harsh as it sounds, workplaces etc are much worse than high school. By accepting change and moving forward into potentially unknown territory, you are causing your body stress, by ensuring you stay calm and act naturally you will not envoke further stress.
It is normal to experience stress when you move schools etc. Its natural and it will subside.
2007-11-26 05:04:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
That's just the way public school is... it gives you a glimpse of how many assholes you'll be dealing with in reality. Anyway, yes... it'll probably go away after you get out. For most people who hated High School, life is better after it's all over and you can get on living your life. Most of the crap that means something in High School means absolutely nothing outside of it, almost. Grades tend to carry on for clear reasons. As far as the stomach aches go, that could be something mental causing it... nervousness, tensions, anxiety and so forth. Probably is too, might want to check it out though, just in case.
2007-11-26 05:04:01 · answer #2 · answered by ruthaford_jive 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are probably just nervous.
Make friends with people who share interest with you and try to laugh a lot man. You'll get over it and you just have to stay positive that things will get better. They always do.
See if there are any programs of activities that you can join up with that you like doing; maybe computer courses, music stuff, art classes, if you're into any of that. That will help you to create a positive memory about school and everything will start to feel better. I was in your boat too, I know how it feels dude.
2007-11-26 05:02:02 · answer #3 · answered by shaRT 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That really stinks! That happened to me a little bit throughout school...I would always dread those moments, especially when the teacher wouldn't let you go to the restroom! Drink A LOT of water and eat a balanced nutritional diet; that's what helped me a lot.
2007-11-26 05:02:59 · answer #4 · answered by Em 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People associating in cliques and being rude does not stop at school, trust me: That's life!
Try to put your frustrations into your school work and you reap the benefits in the end...
Also pick up a hobbie, join a club, that's a good way to meet down to earth kids.
2007-11-26 06:34:38 · answer #5 · answered by ... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound normal to me for someone in High School. I know it hurts sometimes and it is ok the be sad over something you once had. That is probably the only way you will heal you hurt is to feel it and complete it.
2007-11-26 05:06:20 · answer #6 · answered by LDB449 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like anxiety to me. Your education is the most important thing. You can form friends outside of high school. Just relax. It gets better with age and time.
2007-11-26 05:09:25 · answer #7 · answered by Lady B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
American high school is everyone's worst nightmare. It is run by ex-jocks with the mentality of a wet noodle and staffed by the most talentless, officious civil servants imaginable. All who pick up a state pay check are welfare recipients. Educators are the worst of the bunch.
2007-11-26 05:03:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I had a similar problem when I was in school. I would wake up with bad stomach pains and headaches, honestly its more then likely just your nerves.
2007-11-26 05:02:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may have colitis or Irritable bowel syndrome.
IBS doesn't really 'go away' forever, but, reducing stress seems to reduce the occurances. Talk to your dr.
2007-11-26 05:03:27 · answer #10 · answered by Red Velvette KY 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋