Okay, so i've heard that when you first have sex.. some people bleed? :S i'm really confused, please help..
And.. does youre first time hurt? if you do bleed, why?
and, do boys not find this odd :S
Please help Laura x
2007-11-26 03:52:42 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
you can bleed because of hymen tearing, but most girls have already torn their hymen by early teens because of normal activity like bike riding. But sometimes you can tear a little bit just from having something in there and it's completely normal. I don't think any boy would think you were odd. Sometimes your first time can be a little uncomfortable because you've never done it before and your body isn't used to having something bigger than a tampon in there! :) But as long as youre ready and you are relaxed, it should be just fine. :)
2007-11-26 03:57:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
If your with someone who cares about you, there should be no pain involved. Make sure you are "moist" enough. If you are nervous and tense (and dry), it will be painful.
Most people do not bleed. The hymen (the part that would normal be broken the first time, thus bleed) is usually broken well before you have sex for the first time. Now a days, girls are so active. The hymen can be torn during sports. The hymen can also be torn during other sexual explorations which would happen prior to sex. Most likely, you wouldn't even notice.
If the hymen is still intact and you do bleed during your first time. It wouldn't be painful and it wouldn't be excessive.
Nothing to worry about. It's all part of human nature.
2007-11-26 04:00:36 · answer #2 · answered by Mary T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some women bleed if the hymen is penetrated. Some do not. It used to be a sign of true virginity and the family would check the sheets for blood after the wedding night. YUK!
The first time does hurt especially if both parties are inexperienced or nervous. With plenty of lubrication, and if it is someone you absolutely trust, it might not hurt as much.
2007-11-26 04:02:58 · answer #3 · answered by Cid Young 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a small section of skin (hymen) that sometimes can rip or stretch if you are having sex for the first time and it may cause pain, discompfort, and/or bleeding. Some guys may think its gross and others may not even notice (it's not like you will drip blood everywhere unless the tear is severe b/c his penis was very large). You sound very young so I would advise you to talk to your parents or a trusted adult when it comes to sex questions b/c a lot of info can be misleading or misunderstood or just plain wrong. Good luck to ya.
2007-11-26 04:03:41 · answer #4 · answered by LadyBug24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is where the "poping the Cherry" termcomes from. Your hymen is a protective diaphram, after having itercourse it is torn causing some minor bleeding this is completely normal and natural. It hurts a little Boys are never told aboout this they usually find out after.
2007-11-26 04:30:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may bleed because your hymen ("cherry", as some call it...a thin piece of skin in the vagina) will be torn. However, if you are an avid gymnast or horseback rider, your hymen may already be worn away. When you do have sex for the first time, it may hurt very badly, just a little, or not at all. It's different for everyone.
2007-11-26 03:58:44 · answer #6 · answered by Nevaeh 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Some girls bleed when the hymen breaks during penetration. (It is a flap of skin inside the vagina.) It can hurt the first time because you are tearing a piece of skin apart, but eventually sex will get better. You can use lube to make it more comfortable for you and your partner.
Please make sure you wait 'til you are both emotionally ready and responsible for sex, it is a really big step in life. Also, use a condom!
2007-11-26 03:58:58 · answer #7 · answered by queenie 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you have never broken your hymen (a lot of girls will already have done this in a natural way - horseriding/falling on that central bar on your bike/strenuous excercise etc) then as a penis causes pentration it will rupture this thin layer of skin and this is what bleeds.
So long as he is slow and gentle and you are turned on hte body prepares itself for sex and it should not hurt. sometime if you are nervous you tense up and young men are not known for their patientce (especially if they have managed to get inside a girl) and tend to get carried away and go hammer and tongs - so get him to slow down. On the bright side if he's a virgin and it goes wrong it'll only last about 20 seconds :)
Happy shagging :)
2007-11-26 03:58:27 · answer #8 · answered by Belinda 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Best be married and comfortable with your husband then its not so frightening.The hymen is broken the first time and it does bleed. Well if he doesn't know about that stuff it may freak him out a bit. Its not gushing or anything but there is blood.
Look up hymen in dictionary or webmd.com
2007-11-26 03:56:43 · answer #9 · answered by Tapestry6 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should wait, first of all. Yes, some people bleed but it is because the hymen breaks. It doesn't bleed much, and in most cases it isn't even noticable. It will hurt some, but if it's your wedding night, it will be special.
2007-11-26 03:57:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋