okay im 24 with 3 kids and one on the way but i do work and take care of my kids. i have my own place and my own car and i finished high school but i feel ashamed that im 24 with 4 is that too bad i feel stressed sometimes thinking about it and yes im married but i dont know any advice?
2007-11-26 03:26:11 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
well,sweetie i will put it like this....at the age of 20 i had 5 beautiful children.i count it as a blessisng,truly because your [birds]children get to grow up with you.you experience a world of so much love,growth,nuturing and above all you learn yourself,what kind of person you were growing up,what relationship you had with your parents,how to cahange some things for the good[not live through them].it's a blessing to have them at this age you are in,don't ever feel bad about this or stresseed,and you are alreedy blessed....girl look awhat you've accomplished already....those birds of yours were brought into this world with gods love and his blessing.i am proud of you.they will be proud of you also......i love what you're doing already.keep up the good work.give god the glory,pray over everything and in everything pray.
2007-11-26 03:44:51 · answer #1 · answered by SEVIN-5 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's all about if you can provide everything your kids need and if your heart is really in it. Sounds to me like you've got all your ducks in a row and know what it takes.
My sister is actually pregnant with number 4. She has 3 girls already (8, 5 and 3). She's older...32, but LOVES being pregnant, having a crazy house of kids running around and being go, go, go all the time. More power to her...she has more patience with kids than anyone I know. She'd probably not break a sweat if she had 10.
I just have the one...he's 8 1/2 months old. He was high-risk and I knew he was probably going to be before I was even pregnant (long story). He was my one chance. I knew that if I lost him, I couldn't bear trying again and risking another loss. Even before all of that was found out, my husband and I were okay with one. He has a 15 year old daughter from a previous relationship (now questioning that she's really his after all, but not wanting to open that can of worms and hurt her) and we felt that one of both of us was sufficient and we would both be happy with that.
After having my Jonah...whom I adore, working full time days and my husband working nights, I KNOW that another one (even if it was possible) wouldn't be a good idea. I know myself enough to know that I could do it, but my choice is to give all my love to my one and only rotten little boy.
If you can do more than one kid and make sure they have everything...significant other or not...more power to ya...big KUDOS in my book!
2007-11-26 03:44:25 · answer #2 · answered by sweet_trixie_1977 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
My godmother had 5 by the time sh e was 23 and sure it was a handful but she has no problem with her kids. And now she has 2 grandaughters that practically never go home and she still learns to manage it.All you have to do is raise them the right way and you won't have a problem.
You'll be fine if you do the ^above^.
hope i helped
2007-11-26 04:37:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im very suprised that no person has asked you what the plan is on your LO in case you're giving delivery to #2. Who do you sense mushy leaving your daughter with (or have coming at your abode of abode to sit down down along with her)? Do you have a neighbor, a pal, cousin, aunt, uncle, grandparents..which would be prepared and in a position to demonstrate screen her on the drop of a hat? (: stable success.
2016-10-18 04:14:26 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 25 and I have had three kids. My husband and I take care of our children and love them very much. As long as you want and love them have all the kids you can. We are planning to have another baby very soon. Don'y worry about what anyone else thinks or says, you just worry about you and your family. It has become fashionable lately to have 1 or no children and then criticize those with more. I say more power to you if you love those babies.
2007-11-26 03:33:36 · answer #5 · answered by thegarzas1861 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
If you are happy with it who cares what anyone thinks. If you don't want more then I would suggest getting a reliable form of birth control or a tubal ligation. I think you have a nice size family and I bet you will enjoy many happy times with them. God Bless
2007-11-26 03:35:15 · answer #6 · answered by Maria b 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Why should you be ashamed? I come from a family of four. You are married, raising your own kids, have your own house! I say good job!
2007-11-26 03:33:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
It is if you cannot take care of them.
However I am 23 with 5 kids and we have a GREAT family. We are happy, well adjusted.
Do what makes you happy
2007-11-26 04:27:27 · answer #8 · answered by Sunny And '74 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am trying for 3 now and plan on having 4. it is your life and you have to live it the way you see fit. dont worry about what other people think, cause the only opinion that really matters is your own.
good luck to you!!
2007-11-26 03:31:35 · answer #9 · answered by potato 3 · 7⤊ 0⤋
I felt sad reading this,you are your own person and it's up to you how many kids you have.. you sound responsible!! good health and luck to you x x x
2007-11-26 03:34:53 · answer #10 · answered by No name 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋