I'm white and I like this black guy and he likes me back but we aren't going out yet, we are just talking. But my friends who have dated black guys tell me that they cheat, they always like to have more than 1 woman, they can't express their feelings properly and they are really cold in relationships, even if they do love you. This doesn't mean all of them but I'm just wondering any of you girls who have dated black guys, have you found any of those things?
2007-11-26 03:22:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can't say that they don't.... i feel really bad about saying this but all of the guys that I have dated have kinda been like that. That probably speaks to my unluckiness in the dating department not on black guys themselves.
2007-11-26 03:27:29 · answer #1 · answered by luxemomny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a black brethren and there is no validity to your friends opinion. All men will cheat regardless of color. It is very important to know exactly what you want in a relationship regardless of color. Have values and stick to them through out the relationship. When both individuals sit down and establish goals for the relationship it works, if not then trouble comes in. It takes a lot more responsibility when dating people of a different race because of the pressures of society and family views.
2007-11-26 11:32:04 · answer #2 · answered by Kaya M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be stupid. If you have a bad experience with a white guy that doesnt mean all white guys are bad. Everybody is different, race does not even matter.
2007-11-26 11:27:21 · answer #3 · answered by MJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every one is different.Just because someone of a certain race did something doesnt mean that everyone is the does the ecxact same thing.
2007-11-26 11:35:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because one behaves that way doesn't mean they all do. This is true of any group of people you can think of.
If you and this guy like each other then date and enjoy each other's company.
2007-11-26 11:27:47 · answer #5 · answered by Invisigoth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't assume just because one black guy did it that they all do
2007-11-26 11:25:37 · answer #6 · answered by BOOMER SOONER FAN!!! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋