ok yes another relationship issue....?

Question

i (as you my have guessed) have problems in realtionships
i'm at the desperate point right about
i have only dated one guy and what a hell of a mistake.
and then we have the incident where i'm too shy to tell a guy/chic i like them because i get embassarssed
anyway could i get advice?
i only live once....

Answer 1

Yes but your acting like you got eternity to figure it out. Use that phrase right.

No lets put it this way, your Gothic right? So you understand better then those teen-bop preps that life is a struggle. That good times come to those that fight for it, so start fighting! Realize this isn't an innocent consequence of your nature. This is because society makes it hard for a person to find an identity that makes them feel worthy, hence your gothicness. I was a freak myself, a sort of Gothic, skater, thug, stoner, high-breed, which gave me a certain right to move from group to group so that could hurt you. But the point remains take it as serious as life or death when you talking to someone, that way when you finally at some point realize how damn cool you are (your a Gothic American female, your cool by default!) you feel how intense it is that your finally opening up. Also spend sometime with yourself, being your own bestfriend frist then move on to the rest of the world, theirs alot of perversions and ignorance you need to be able to shield yourself from, before you get started. And if your really Gothic, talk to the other goths, goths are usually friendly, open-mined, if somewhat depressed individuals, but they open up better then thugs or preps! So give them a try, you shouldn't be having this problem I would of thought..... but I've got an e-mail, this get to much for you, I love talking about this crap, e-mail me....