he doesn't answer anyone of my calls! he lives like an hour drive away and thats the first time i've slept with him! and he's being a comlpete jerk! he messages me on facebook saying that he keeps missing my calls and that i should call him later. but i did and he never answers! i even leave voicemails. im not going to see him until december. thats when he have his break? whats should i do? i really like him and i want him to like me back! and i forgot i checked his face book wall and he was planning on getting married to this girl! but that was in 2006. im still wondering if he still loves her. how do i talk to him? what do i do? help me please????
2007-11-26 03:05:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't waste your time on him. Even if he legitimately missed your calls, what's stopping him from calling you back? He has enough time to message you, but he chooses that because it doesn't put him on the spot. IMHO he got what he wanted from you and is cutting you loose.
2007-11-26 03:13:13 · answer #1 · answered by Kitten 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax and don't act too clingy. Guys don't like that. Just respect his space and hope he calls you back. If he is still stuck on this girl, than that is something you cannot help. I understand why it would upset you though, since you have slept with him. But just wait things out a little bit and wait for him to come to you. Guys love a challenge. Maybe if you stop calling as much and show that you don't care...he will come running. At least thats how it worked for me!
2007-11-26 11:10:05 · answer #2 · answered by mally_pie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy is interested he'd be in touch with you. I'm sorry to say, you should probably move on.
If he were really into you, he'd be doing all the things you are doing. He'd try to call you, leave you messages on your phone, do any number of things. The fact that he may or may not be engaged or married, just means more trouble.
2007-11-26 11:46:05 · answer #3 · answered by b b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, how old are you? It was a one night stand. He got what he wanted and now he's gone. Any other contact he has with you is just to get some more at his convenience.
A real man takes care of his woman, he always conscious of her feelings, would answer her calls and emails. This guy is not him!!
Don't fall for it!!
2007-11-26 11:10:46 · answer #4 · answered by serene e 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's playing with you. That's why he emails you and tells you to call him. It's to give you false hope that there is a possibility of something more. If he's not making an effort to call you, then he's not interested in you.
Don't waste anymore energy or time on this loser and make yourself available to someone who deserves you.
2007-11-26 11:17:08 · answer #5 · answered by Invisigoth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, it would be hard to be engaged to someone and just let all feelings go....he may be confused about what he wants. Or...and unfortunately, some guys get disinterested once you sleep with them....for him the challenge may be gone; he's already gotten his "conquest."
I have learned not to chase the bad guys; let the good guys come to you.
2007-11-26 11:09:38 · answer #6 · answered by Stacy A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well not to sound harsh but it sounds to me that u were juss a one night stand...he obviously has feelings for this girl that he wants to marry and probably styl talks to her...he probably only talks 2 you on facebook so that he can use you again or feels guilty for doing what he did....he doesnt answer your calls cause maybe hes with that girl....drop him fast and move on
2007-11-26 11:11:43 · answer #7 · answered by italiancutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heyy..... i think he's just playing you around..i've been trough a situation like tis..but thank God i never slept with anyone..move on and get a life,make he amazed at you and starting to beg on his knees! i'll support u!
2007-11-26 11:17:08 · answer #8 · answered by Elvyana E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He got what he wanted from you and it's time for him to move on to the next.He was just looking for a one night-er.
2007-11-26 11:11:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just used you for a quick lay. He's a jerk. Forget about him.
2007-11-26 11:18:32 · answer #10 · answered by luxemomny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋