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And still sleep in bed with you how can you ? my son like to hit people and he dont care if he hurt them! When it time to go to sleep he see a guy in are room what can i do the Dr. say it normal but i dont think so? please help

2007-11-26 02:26:49 · 5 answers · asked by (iris) 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Toddler & Preschooler

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I think it is normal.
My daughter had an imaginary dog for years she is fine, and he is right at the age where he starts to learn about other people in the world,
up until now his world has been all about him. Now he is starting to see others as people too, soon he'll learn not to hurt others.

what ever you do don't go putting him on a bunch of medications,
I hate it when parents turn to meds to fix what is really normal childhood development
just because they can't handle the problem,
the kids ends up screwed up later in life because the meds change their brain development.
Take a child psy class, you'll see this is a normal stage..

2007-11-26 13:28:31 · answer #1 · answered by S.T. 4 · 0 0

I have been told by some that perhaps since children have yet to be "corrupted" by the ideas and views of the world that maybe they are more "in tune" with the world around them. Maybe your son is able to see things we can not because we have been told so many things about how "spirits aren't real." I would not say this is a good or bad thing unless something changes; for instance, he sees something violent or scary. Then it may be time for him to talk to a professional.
As for the hitting, toddlers are just beginning to understand they have a place in the world and that what they do has an impact and gets a reaction. When he hits he may be doing it to act out or vent to relieve some type of stress of confusion. He may also be testing his limits to see what he can get away with. What you need to do it make sure when he hits you calmly but firmly explain why hitting is wrong and why not to do it and put him in time out or some other appropriate punishment.

2007-11-26 02:36:55 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Dragon 2 · 0 0

Ok, as far as seeing someone in the room- either your son has a great imagination, which most toddlers do OR he's picking up on something paranormal. Since you seem to think that there's something abnormal going on, contact paranormal investigators in your area. Start with TAPS.

It's your job to continuously reinforce that hurting people is wrong. When he hits someone, you have to discipline your son however you feel is right.
Good Luck.

2007-11-26 02:36:36 · answer #3 · answered by Jennield 6 · 0 0

initially he's in basic terms too youthful to be examined marvelous now, in spite of the fact that, he if he prefer take a seat nonetheless and is hitting kicking and biting, there is something up there. in spite of the fact that it might desire to be their disipline procedures. Does he act this type at domicile? maximum upload or ADHD babies will act greater perfect in public than at domicile. i might marvel them with the help of popping in and viewing him you're able to do this you already know, you in basic terms make certain you sign in, and the instructor would not might desire to work out you pop in. If she is over reacting to his anger, getting pissed off that style of ingredient he's in all likelihood feeding off of it and appearing even worse. Now right here is the biggy ingredient. they haven't any marvelous to assist you to already know to have your toddler examined, and that they are able to easily reject him if the habit keeps. so which you tell them which you will get your toddler examined on the perfect time, and interior the advise time you may desire to artwork jointly on innovations to help self-discipline him in an perfect way. additionally despite if he's ADHD, that would not advise which you may desire to placed him on medicine, those drugs may be potentialy volatile. they won't be able to even advise it because of the fact they do no longer look to be scientific docs and you may desire to enable them to comprehend that. In an fairly form way as you are able to. cling in there, and that i'm sorry which you're dealing with this, flow which comprise your mom instincts in this. An aggressive hyper toddler would not constantly advise adhd. often times it is barely the self-discipline attitude.

2016-11-12 20:35:09 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

the hitting and being rude needs to be punished. to stop the sleeping in your bed put him in his own bed in his own room
toddlers see things that we cant nothing you can do about that

2007-11-26 02:36:51 · answer #5 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 0 0

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