Shes always belittles me, picks at everything I do. She's strange too, she just slapped me across the arm 5 times with a flat hard surface causing a huge, pink bruice with red dots on it. She is always rude to everyone at home, and always hogs everything, she claims anything she wants. Shes 21, Im 16. Why is she like this>?
2007-11-25 21:25:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I have a sister who is six years older than me. Growing up she repeatedly beat me and my other sister, was mean and rude to our parents, took anything and everything she wanted and claimed it was hers and there was no way of getting it back from her if you didn't want hit. She was exceptionally strong, and could hold us down and punch us and although we would struggle and try to fight back, she was just too powerfull. My sister found out a few years back (she is 34 now) that she has extensive brain damage to the left side (I think it is that side) of her brain, and she is bipolar. If it is anything like what I dealt with, and it sounds like it, then she NEEDS help. The last time my sister beat me she held me down on my stomach and punched me repeatedly in the back cause multiple bruising, but I was able to grab a weapon and hit her in the face with it causing her a black eye. She never touched me again. So I suggest fighting back as hard as you can, and finding a way to get her help. Good luck, and if things get to severe, call the cops. You and your family do not deserve to be treated like that.
2007-11-26 19:27:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Has you are your family spoke of this you should she needs to realise you do not want to be slapped or be Little you maybe just ignoring her might be a step in the right direction remember she is 21 and may have a few issues you are not aware of is she being bullied at work or pushed around and taking it out on yous there are lots of reasons people act in this way Dave
2007-11-25 21:31:05 · answer #2 · answered by Psycho Dave 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like she's in need of professional help, as well as a good job. She's jealous of you because you are still in your teens, while she is expected to now take responsibility as an adult and either go find a husband, or go out and work.
But, what she did is illegal, even if she is your sister. If there is a mark, I would report her to protective services right away. Safe bet that, if a social worker came calling, she would keep her hands to herself.
2007-11-25 21:30:21 · answer #3 · answered by rhino 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she loves you. Sibling rivalry is universal. Mind you, she's getting a little old for this kind of behaviour. Possibly you're a nicer and more popular person than she. My only advice is, don't get mad... get even. Good luck.
2007-11-25 21:31:58 · answer #4 · answered by FRANsuFU 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WTF..she is dealing with something way bigger than "sisterly fights"..umm..if i were you..i'd learn some kung fu or something and whoop her ***. That's what she needs..a good *** whooping..to show she's not the only badass.
She's picking on youbecause she knows shecan and u won't do snything about it..
What a jerk!
2007-11-26 01:05:00 · answer #5 · answered by The Goddess 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a psycho wench...actually she sounds like my little sister..she is a year younger than me.
she is always belittling me. and making jokes out of the blue about something that i'd said in confidence..
does one of your parents act like this? monkey see monkey do....
its really sad but you might need to seperate yourself from her. dont tell her anything you dont want anyone else to know...and if worse comes to worse...call dr phil....
2007-11-25 21:32:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's too old to be acting that way, it sounds like she really needs some kind of psychiatric help.
2007-11-25 22:07:51 · answer #7 · answered by SternFan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your parents about how you feel. At 21, she should be more mature than that.
2007-11-25 21:29:11 · answer #8 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she has never heard "no" before. my sis is a brat too and she is 30. she got everything she wanted no matter who she stepped on to get it. thats because my parents never set boundaries for her.
2007-11-25 21:32:05 · answer #9 · answered by msnglnk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
at first I thought that maybe she was jealous but if she is hitting you call the police. that is assault and she should go to jail.
2007-11-25 21:44:32 · answer #10 · answered by huskydog2001 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋