My boyfriends family are good people. They are just fake people. So we go to a great Monday night football game back in october. Everyone having a GREAT time. It's time to go and we all had a good amount to drink. We leave to only leave from a good and exciting place to entering a war! My boyfriend and his sister start to argue...next thing you know his brother in law is going after him for no apparent reason. His sister is yelling, everyone is yelling!!! I look to see him on the ground b/c ( his sister had to sick her husband on him) with his arm hanging out of his shoulder. From there we sat in the E.R. and two months(almost) later surgery is completed and it's a healing process til February. Delema is we haven't talked to his sister or her husband since the accident. The holidays are here his mother is upset with the fact he is not around and guess who is the talk at the table??...Me i am the only one who did nothing wrong and his family hates me for this!!...WHAT SHOULD I DO
2007-11-25 14:17:54 · 7 answers · asked by nikki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
find a new family for your bf
or better yet, find a bf with a better family
2007-11-29 11:54:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The BF probably needs to sue the BIL for lost wages and medical expenses... maybe even file a formal complaint with the police department.
Both you and the Bf need to stay away from that lot when there is any alcohol involved.
2007-11-25 22:32:17 · answer #2 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his family is upset with you, because you act totally civilized especially during the time of an unhealthy brawl-it just too bad for them. There's nothing you can do, just be yourself. I would try to avoid them as much as possible.
The importance is for you to focus on your relationship with your boy friend. As Christmas coming buy everone a decent present. My advice is not to do anything because you have done nothing wrong. God bless.
2007-11-25 22:30:48 · answer #3 · answered by tony 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey this family is not good.They are trash and you need to stay away from them.They are looking for someone to blame.Who cares about the holidays they are still wrong.Stay out of it.
2007-11-25 22:23:16 · answer #4 · answered by butterflyspy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SCREW THEM! Dont let it bother you. Be glad your being talked about! It meams your being thought of anyways and if their really so bored and you end up being the topic of conversation GREAT!!
IF there is no contact though how the hell do you know your the center topic??
2007-11-25 22:36:26 · answer #5 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run, baby run! Get away as fast as you can! Family drama like that will end up killing your relationship.
2007-11-25 22:26:38 · answer #6 · answered by Sassy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get a new bf....u dont need all that stupid drama!
2007-11-25 22:23:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋