((just don't say be yourself))
2007-11-25 13:15:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're a girl, all you have to do is smile, be really friendly, act like you think he's interesting, and laugh at his jokes.
2007-11-25 13:18:24 · answer #1 · answered by Jonathan 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You talk to them, you spend time with them, and you display interest...all while being yourself. You can't overlook that element of it! If you're not being yourself, then no one will ever like you! They'll only like the mask you put on to try and impress them, and that is a very cold and lonely thought! So, if you can talk to a guy, spend time with a guy, and display interest to a guy, all while being yourself, well, then it's on him to ask you out. And if you can't be yourself around a guy you like, then he may not be right for you.
2007-11-25 21:19:44 · answer #2 · answered by Dan in Real Life 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys like girls who are light-hearted and friendly, not moody and critical etc. If you are really shy, pretend not to be, smile and speak in a friendly way, walk with confidence, instead of hanging back in the crowd. They also like to do things together in order to form bonds with others, participating in activities gets you noticed. Be a little mysterious and hard to pin down, they don't like things to be too easy ...they like to work for what they get. They also appreciate specific compliments that show you are paying attention, nothing too personal, and something not related to appearance is best..it boosts their self esteem.
2007-11-25 21:23:49 · answer #3 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well what else is there?....you cant actually pretend to be someone else to be liked, that is the universal answer i would think....well you Can pretend but then again you will not be able to keep up with the charade very long...which is why is better to just be you, interest yourself in what they like, show interest...that always helps
2007-11-25 21:21:00 · answer #4 · answered by darkem<33 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to them. Find out their interests and if you share them, talk about those things.
It is important to be yourself in so far as making this whole process less boring.
2007-11-25 21:19:16 · answer #5 · answered by Reformed Nice Guy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show that you have self confidence in yourself.
2007-11-25 21:22:02 · answer #6 · answered by Charlie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Voodoo
2007-11-25 21:17:21 · answer #7 · answered by Mooka 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
uh you just answered your own question!
let me prove it.
okay i luv watching football
playing basketball and videogames
i luv music
i'm not a gurly gurl but i'm not a tom boy and they still like me just the way i am!
u just have to wait to find the right guy!
2007-11-25 21:19:32 · answer #8 · answered by Betty J 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't get them 2 like me i never say anything that might make them think i like them and leave them in suspense and then they just ask me out but it doesn't work 4 every1
2007-11-25 21:18:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk to them. ask them questions about themselves. be funny and cute
2007-11-25 21:22:29 · answer #10 · answered by spiCy crys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋