ME AND MY DAD USE TO BE REAL CLOSE UNTIL HE AND MY MOM GOT A DIVORCE, AND NOW HE HAS A NEW GIRLFRIEND. HE SPENDS ALL HIS TIME WITH HER. I NEVER GET ANY TIME ANY MORE. I FEEL LEFT OUT THE LOOP. HIS GIRL FRIEND IS A GOLDIGGER AND I KNOW IT. BUT HES TO BLIND TO SEE. ME AND HER HAVE GOTTEN IN TO IN ON OCCASION. I WANT TO KICK HER *** BUT I CANT. SO HOW DO I TELL ME DAD I HATE HIS GIRL FRIEND.
2007-11-25 13:08:58 · 13 answers · asked by Aya Baby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It is not unusual for you to feel a little left out. You need to sit down with your dad and tell him how you are feeling. so you can spend some time together. You can't change his mind about his girlfriend, he has to see it himself. just be there for him just in case he needs you, if what you are thinking about his new girl is true. you might only push him away if you insist on showing your hatred for her.
2007-11-25 13:18:26 · answer #1 · answered by shajones41 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you are in a tough situation and it is a hard time for you. However, I think you should not say anything about his girlfriend. He will find out soon enough is she is a golddigger.
I believe your main issue is that you miss spending time with your dad. I would write him a letter and tell him how much you miss the close relationship that you once had and that you need to spend some time with him alone. Leave the girlfriend out of it because it will cloud the issue. He is your dad and hopefully he will see he is not being fair to you. Good luck.
2007-11-25 21:15:56 · answer #2 · answered by Dug48 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't attempt to tell your dad anything of the sort... it will fall on deaf ears.
Chances are it will only result in him ignoring you.
I would suggest dropping a hint like... "Well... I have a couple of friends whose parents have also divorced... Lisa's dad got into the habit of doing a background check on anyone he thought about getting serious with and it probably saved him a lot of grief. Lisa's mom does that too, now. I have another friend whose mom did a background check on her boyfriend... found out he was still married and had a prison record. Bobbie's dad got a prenup with his second fiance... he broke it off with the previous one when she wouldn't sign a prenup... figured it showed how she really was."
... and go on about that. Make it conversational.
After all... it would be dreadful to lose half of everything TWICE, wouldn't it?
2007-11-25 21:19:55 · answer #3 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is the thing hun, it is your dad's money, not yours so if she is diggin' his gold and he is letting her, that's not your problem. You are a teenager and you are going to be doing your own thing, it isn't fair for you to ask your dad to give up his girlfriend because you don't care for her. Just because you don't like her, doesn't mean there is anything wrong with her. Agree to disagree for your father's sake and let the relationship with him and her evolve on its own. It probably won't work out if what you are saying is accurate but it won't be because of you, it will be because he will find out she is a tramp. As for your relationship with your dad, you need to tell him that you need time and tell him that you would like to set aside at least 5 hours a week of just you and him time. He should respect that.
2007-11-25 21:14:56 · answer #4 · answered by rynoslady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definattly talk to him. Tell him your inner true feelings about his new girlfriend. Tell him how and why you do not like his new girlfriend. Tell it from your point of veiw. After he is your dad and I am sure he will listen to you. Tell him the truth and honest truth about your feelings. As for his girlfriend try to stay calm around her, even though you don't like her. I am sure he will listen to you. All you have to do is have a voice and let him hear what you have to say no matter what! Good luck! :)
2007-11-25 21:17:11 · answer #5 · answered by Nicole 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Difficult he likes her so he's blind to your pleas, has he even noticed the distance between you and him try to plan a day out for just you and him, tell him straight damn dad I feel like you don't even love me anymore, you spend all your time with goldy and none with me
2007-11-25 21:19:07 · answer #6 · answered by satan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even if you tell him you dont like her thats not going to do anything, the only thing that will change is that he knows how you feel, just becuase you dont like doesnt mean hes going to break up with her, people divorce and want to start fresh with someone else. he may have 40 girlfriends and you dont like them all.
2007-11-25 21:18:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl thats a hard ?, what you need to do it try and tell him in a nice way about how you feel about him not being around, as far as her being a gold digger he will have to find that out for himself. im sure if she is , he will find it out soon.i really dont think he is leaveing you out cause he wants to he may not notice it. so tell he !!! things always work them selves out, so hang in there, keep your head up and just go for what you want in life.
2007-11-25 21:16:38 · answer #8 · answered by DOCIE S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit your dad down talk to him about let him know how you feel you shouid be more imporant than some old fart....i mean hes your dad shes just another woman...HOw old is she?..lol..ok im just playin but really sit him down and let him know your feelings:):(
2007-11-25 21:17:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit down and talk to your Dad. He's your Dad and he should understand how you feel.
2007-11-25 21:12:01 · answer #10 · answered by [C]ouRtηєу Loves<3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋