Does this sound like a hypocritical christian?

Question

So my friend has a 2 year old and decided that they are not going to celebrate halloween because it goes against her family's beliefs, but the other day she came crying to me because she thought she was pregnant again, she's not married. What the crap dude?

Answer 1

Accidents happen. Rather than condemn her, be a friend and offer some emotional support. Pregnancy takes a toll on women, especially the unexpected ones. And it's all the harder when you are single and alone.

Answer 2

Yes that is very hypocritical. I know someone who does the same thing. She denies her children a little fun at Halloween amongst other things, but then she peddles her behind around the Internet and everywhere else in town.
She sets a very bad example for her kids. She is good at talking the talk of a Christian, but she fails to walk the walk.

Answer 3

Yes and no. My boyfriend of almost 3 years claims to be a Christian yet we are expecting our first baby in a few days, he curses like a mad man, looks at porn, and lives with me... I know right!?

It's only hypocritical if she knocks other people for doing the same thing she does or has done. Christians are people too as much as I hate to admit... Leaving them open to choose what they feel is right. Halloween apparently to her is unacceptable but premarital sex isn't. She is free to choose her own morals.

So, let her preach down to those who do the premarital sex thing... THEN call her a hypocrite. She will do it I promise. They always contradict themselves at one point or another when it comes to this subject.

Answer 4

i've got self assurance your announcing that because you have seen many Christians pass to church and then get out and do regardless of they choose. you possibly can pick to be a hypocrit or no longer. yet you won't be able to choose each and each man or woman. do no longer seem at human beings's blunders. One is suppossed to restoration themselves and not be nerve-racking approximately different peoples flaws except you intend to help them.

Answer 5

Very good. This is a classic example of someone who wants others to think they are a Christian.
A Christian who can not see the difference between celebrating Halloween and fornication is in serious trouble.

Answer 6

She needs your support, not your judgement. I don't know how old she is, but she's going to need friends around if her family is not going to be supportive. Sure, if she is religious, she probably "screwed up". But if she's just following her family's wishes, then she doesn't need to be made to feel any more guilty just because she doesn't have a ring on her finger.

Answer 7

She may be a hypocrite. She clearly has issues. Why dont you be a friend and focus on what is really wrong with her...her low self esteem and self destructive nature. A nature that is putting her and her kids in jeapordy.

Answer 8

So much for being a friend.Judging people is easy to do.
Listening, helping and providing comfort in times of stress is the foundation of a true friend.
At least she is trying.
We all go through our times and look to our friends for help, and not all real friends are of the same faith.
Hypocritical, no.

Get A Grip

Answer 9

You sound like the devil pointing your bony little finger at someone else instead of taking a good look at your own self.

Answer 10

Yes, like all beliefs system no one truely adapts all of them, adapt the ones that suite you and not care about the ones that go against your lifestyle.