I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years.......
And he's starting to get really funny about me spending time with my friend from school who i've known for 10 years now!!
Before i was with my boyfriend my mate from school told me he liked me but i said i wanted stay mates cos i didnt like him in that way!! but my boyfriend found out and told me to stop seeing him!! what shall i do??
2007-11-25 10:22:16 · 6 answers · asked by Charlotte M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would tell him that you're not prepared to stop your friendship with your friend who you've known for 10 years. If he loves you then he would not give you an ultermatem like that unless she's seriously done something wrong which you havent mentioned. If she'd done nothing then stick by her as it sounds like your boyfriend is just trying to be emotionaly abusive what next? stop you seeing your family?
2007-11-25 10:28:36 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless your friend is trying for something more than being friends, you should continue to see him as often as you please. You should maintain all of your friendships. The boyfriend may not work out. Friends should be forever. If your boyfriend won't allow you to see any of your friends and can't accept that you have platonic relationships, then you need to dump the boyfriend.
I know this may sound harsh, but him not allowing you to be with other men is a tell-tale sign that he is being possessive or insecure with himself. You need to talk to him and reassure him that you are being faithful and that you have been friends with this guy long before you and the boyfriend started dating. If he can't understand that, then you may want to give him an ultimatum. Life is too short to have jealous types around.
2007-11-25 18:31:27 · answer #2 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should separate from him and tell him that your boyfriend get jealous of you and me if he see s us together explain that your boyfriend finds out already. Say he was mad at me so i think you shouldn't be around me a lot and in front of my friends.
2007-11-25 18:33:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all your bf shoudl`nt tell you who you should see on who you should'nt be with. If that is your friend and nothing else than your bf should respect your wishes. If it came down to choosing than chose your friend because you knew him for 10 years and you should never choose your bf over your friend.
2007-11-25 18:27:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
decide what you want...a boyfriend or a friend....its tough but you have to do it.
get them both together and then they can see what all the fuss is about....
2007-11-25 18:27:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends how you would feel if he was talking to a girl friend wat would you do,also who means more to you
2007-11-25 18:36:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋