miscarriage at 18 weeks?

Question

On thursday i lost my little baby..12 weeks i started to bleed and i had scan and baby was ok, very active. The bleeding started to stop & at 14 weeks i had another bleed, this time with big clots.. Went to hospital, kept me in and scan nxt day, Here they found a Subcronic Haematoma which is a blood clot. It was behind the placenta and they said it would cause a miscarriage if it gets bigger. I was scared. since then, i've been bleeding on and off and baby seems to be fine untill thrusday morning at 5 when i got these absolute pains and they were so bad that i couldn't walk, i went to A&E and i was on the bed and a massive clot come out, i was scared and begged the nurse not to leave me.. 2 minutes after that, the pain got even worse, i knew this time it wasn't a clot,,, it was the baby, the most sad & heart-breaking thing was that it give a little cry when it come out and i just broke in two. I need 2 know what the chances are of this happenin again and when its ok to try again....

Answer 1

I'm so sad to hear about your baby. I lost my baby 5 weeks ago at 28wks 6days. I too had my first bleed at 12 wks. My subchorionic hematoma stayed with me until 4 days before delivery. It passed and everything went downhill from there. I'm still recovering from my c section and yet I dream of becoming pregnant again. I was told the chance of a SCH recurring are 10-20%. Do you have a peri who can talk with you about your situation? I think that is what I'll do before moving forward. I wish you all the best. This is a pain no parent should ever have to feel. God bless you.

Answer 2

I am so sorry to hear about your baby. My husband and I lost a baby girl last year at 21 weeks. I was told to wait at least 3 months, but mainly because I was given a booster shot for Ruebella (German Measels). You need to discuss this with your OB/GYN and ask them what the chances of this happening again are.

Answer 3

omg i fell your pain and what you are going thru i lost my first baby 11 years ago my baby was still born when i went to my routine ultrasound at 4 months.my baby had anecephaly,when your baby dosen't develop a full round head there was just a hole on top of the babys head.believe me i grieved fo months. but with the help of family and the strenth god gave me i was ok.i waited a year to try again to have a baby,took my vitamins every day.ate healthy,now12 years later i have 3 healthy children sent from heaven.10y/o 5y/o & 10 months old.so you and your doctor have alot to discuss for this not to repeat itself.good luck

Answer 4

i'm very sorry on your loss and don't blame your self that's something that frequently comes as a marvel in spite of in case you have been going to a physician. Did you mean an incompetent cervix? if so that's something which you will could see your time-honored practitioner for as quickly as you come across out you're pregnant or in the previous hand and he/she will in all threat decide to do something referred to as a cervical cerclage, the place they stitch up your cervix.

Answer 5

oh my god ,im so sorry to hear that,i had one at 6 weeks and that was bad enough,god only knows how you must be feeling,i too felt my baby come out,it was devastating ,it does not mean you will miscarry again,but they say the further along you were,the longer you should wait to try again.again i say im so srry for your loss
good luck

Answer 6

so sad....happened to my mother 8 years ago. :( it seems to be more common if it is a girl, but my mom had 2 kids (1 of them being me) before that and 1 after, with no complacations.

Answer 7

I am so sorry, I hope everything works out for you.