Hey everyone, so basically I'm attracted to this guy but I don't know how to approach the situation due to my race. I'm black, he's white...we go to two different schools, and well we kinda just met at this (party), but I've seen him plenty of times before. I'm just stuck right now, if anyone can help me out there figure out what to do, thanx!
2007-11-25 08:04:50 · 16 answers · asked by Daryn H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
O yea! If anyone can tell me...what attracts white guys to black girls that would be nice too. I also hope I'm not offending anyone by this. Thanx!
2007-11-25 08:07:09 · update #1
Not sure why white guys don't seem to go for black girls. I think it's true though. I find black females attractive and flirt with them all the time. They seem to be more fun to party with at a bar/club than white girls most of the time.
My advice is don't do anything out of the ordinary. Just be yourself and if he has a problem with the race thing then time to move on.
edit: I'm white
2007-11-25 08:15:45 · answer #1 · answered by Jason 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
A lot are, just like a lot of black guys are interested in black girls. The people who aren't are just racist t***s. If you are attracted to this guy, get talking to him. If he says that you are disgusting because you are black (you're not) then he's not worth it. Move on if that is the case. The world doesn't work in the way that whites go with whites and blacks go with blacks. It's who you fall in love with. Black, white, it doesn't matter. What matters is what you are good inside. The answer to your question is that probably white guys ARE attracted to you but you need to get talking to the person you like. Hope it helps Nina :) xxx
2016-04-05 22:00:34 · answer #2 · answered by Jane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK... I'm a white guy, and unless the black girl is somebody very special I'm usually not interested - same as a white girl.
If you like this guy maybe you should just ask him out... for coffee or "something" and just try to let him know that you like him. Or you could just come out and tell him - that can work too. Either way, good luck!
2007-11-25 08:10:33 · answer #3 · answered by Paul Hxyz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I am black and I've dated plenty of white guys and am with one now. First off, I would like to say is some do and some don't. To each their own. I think there are alot of white guys who like black girls and would date them. But some white guys think that black girls don't like them. Again, some of us do and some of us don't. They are just as shy about it as we are. All of the white guys I have been with have told me that they would have never guessed that I was interested. And probably wouldn't have appoarched me. Because you just don't know who into interracial dating and who is not.
Which is why you just have to take your chances and go for it. You never know...what if he likes you too? 9 out of 10 if he does he's not going to appoarch you about it. Because like I said alot of them think we are uninterested. Which is why you need to make the first move. Just be yourself. And ask him does he wanna hang out sometime. If you have a friend that hangs out with him you can tag along with them to another party? Trust me, you don't want to sit back and wonder....what if? That is the most annoying thought ever. So avoid all the frustration and just go for it.
2007-11-28 12:04:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think it's a white/black thing. I believe there is a certain chemistry between two people, and they both feel it when they first meet. It's bigger than race or religion. If you have another friend who knows him, maybe you could put a buzz in her ear that you would like to get to know him better. Good luck!
2007-11-25 08:09:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If a person does not like a certain type than its not gonna work. That is the answer to your question it does not matter if you are green, orange, or red. There has to be an attraction to a "CERTAIN TYPE". You cant force someone to like a type they have never been into its about each individual, he can fall in love with you as a person and not care about skin color it happens sometimes.
2007-11-25 08:10:25 · answer #6 · answered by J M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of white guys who are into black women. Im Nigerian and most of the white guys Ive dated are the ones who approached me. If you are interested in a guy and he is obviously checking you out and you are both catching eachother's eyes, go up to him and flirt wih him. It should work, otherwise, its going to be one missed connection.
2007-11-29 07:14:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like slim black girls with tight booties and pretty faces. Personality-wise, being "too ghetto" is a turn off.
2007-11-25 08:11:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Race doesnt matter to me. Nut hopefully it doesnt to him either. If he isnt a racist, then do what a white to white person would do r black to black
2007-11-25 08:09:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think that it does not matter about the color of the person, but about what they find attactive about them, my dad is white and my mom is black and they had three kids together.
2007-11-25 08:10:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anne B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋