This guy is so confusing! I don't know if he's being REALLY friendly or if he wants something more. Take note that we could be called "friends" but I barely know him really. And he acts like we are really close. I asked if he had a girlfriend and he said yes. Here's what's been going on:
He's ALWAYS staring at me A LOT
Going out of his way to talk to me
He asks me lots of questions about myself
Calls me "Miss"
We always smile at each other
Opens doors for me and smiles
Talked for 2+ hours in the library, did not stick to homework
Fidgeted and seems nervous at times
Moved next to me in class
Ignored him one day, he still came up and talked to me
Always makes an effort to talk to me...
I invited him to go to a play and he went the day I asked if he was going...
He found me on facebook
He starts the convos on AIM
He calls me on my cell phone and asks how I am doing
When I found out he had a girl, I told him she was a lucky girl. He wrote this on facebook:
2007-11-25 07:38:45 · 18 answers · asked by Celtic Girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was a little caught off guard by what you told me today, and I'm extremely flattered, you are of course very pretty but I am spoken for. Uh I know you said you felt slightly embarrassed about our studying together but I hope you know that you really shouldn't. I think you are a very intelligent and good person and I couldn't call myself your friend if I didn't at least attempt to help you pass the class. although you probably don't really need my help to pass math I hope that we can still be friends because I think you're really cool.
Sincerely, his name
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He has complimented me before on my hair and eyes. I know I should not pursue him, but I want to know why he's so interested in me. He keeps on going about how good of friends we are but honestly, I know little about him! He's more of an aquaintance... please give advice...I really don't know what to think here....
2007-11-25 07:40:24 · update #1
Some guys just want their cake and the option to eat it too. Why wouldn't he keep starring and talking and sending you mixed signals when he knows that your contemplating "liking" him.
This is really how "the other woman" is developed. You begin telling yourself if he were truly happy with his girlfriend then he wouldn't seek you out. From there comes the justification-he's not your man so you're not going to trip on what the two of you do together----it's not your problem, it's hers.
I would make myself less available. Nothing good can come from this situation, Let's say he does leave his girlfriend to be with you, now you'll carry the emotional baggage on wondering when it will happen to you.
If you need a friend, be his friend. If you're pining away and wanting more- Find a guy that can be with you-unconditionally. If you're wondering why you haven't foubd him yet, it could be because you and what-his-face are carrying on like a couple that potential guys are getting the wrong signal.
2007-11-25 07:49:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So he has complimented you. So what? So he likes you. Obviously. He has told you he is already spoken for.
Get over yourself.
What's wrong? Cannot get over the fact that a guy can like you and NOT want to get in your pants? Is that a new concept for you?
That's the problem when a guy JUST likes you ~ He's pretty much immune to your usual games that work so well with other guys. You should hang out with this guy ~ you might learn something.
2007-11-25 07:50:39 · answer #2 · answered by ezxqz 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-09-05 14:04:11 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe I'm just getting too old to fall for the junk young people will fall for. The man had a female. What is wrong with this picture? You think his girl is luck to have him and he is spending his time with you while he is still with this other girl...doesn't something sound off to you?
2007-11-25 07:47:08 · answer #4 · answered by RT 66 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants you alright, but you'd better tell him you aren't comfortable with the level of attention he is paying you and he needs to tone it down because it's not fair to you or his girlfriend. He probably thinks he's just being friendly, but you need to make him understand that there are different levels of friendliness and the type he's showing to you is courting level friendliness, not "just friends."
You shouldn't be inviting him to a play without his girlfriend, and he shouldn't be ringing you to chat.
2007-11-25 08:15:41 · answer #5 · answered by Rosie_0801 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont read more into this than is there. he has made it clear that he thinks of you as a friend and doesnt mention anything about getting together with you. leave it a that. dont go falling in love with someone who only wants you as a friend. if you are still confused. have him take you around his gf and see what he says or how he acts.
2007-11-25 07:48:03 · answer #6 · answered by bilkmilk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Imho he is a guy who wants his cake and eat it too. He is flirting with you and enjoying it. Unless you want to play this kind of game, my advice to you is to cut off the contact you have with him immediately, before you get sucked into a 'love triangle'. There are more and better fish for you in the ocean of single guys.
2007-11-25 07:43:36 · answer #7 · answered by tenno1234 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously likes you. Get to know him so that you are good friends and not just aqquaitances and then see how you feel about him.
2007-11-25 07:45:46 · answer #8 · answered by Samm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
C'mon now, you answered your own question! It sounds as if he acts like hes your boyfriend already! Based on what you told me, I think he really likes you!
2007-11-25 07:42:59 · answer #9 · answered by im_always_drunk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might just accidentally think you guys are really good friends. or... he's not as decent as he seems. or... Alien Clone. or... he secretly hates you and just wants to mess with your head. Or... he's me (but probably not because I would remember.)
2007-11-25 07:50:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋