how do i tell my boyfriend im pregnant? he doesnt want kids and i dont blame him, we've only been together for a little over 3 months almost four... HELP
2007-11-25 07:38:45 · 11 answers · asked by Notyret 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how did you guys tell your boyfriends you were pregnant?
2007-11-25 11:38:02 · update #1
I'm sorry to say this but you need to tell him the truth. You two should talk it out and decide whats the best thing to do. If you were unprotected then it's your own faults other than that don't blame yourself. You two should decide if you want to keep the baby or sadly have an abortion.(I'm not saying you should do this) Seriously talk it out to him and maybe a close relative or friend you trust. Or maybe even your doctor. If your under 17 try him and a family member.
2007-11-25 07:45:57 · answer #1 · answered by browne_eric14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a very tough situation - and you should of been more careful. But what's done is done. I suggest you sit him down and just tell him. It's scary, I understand. But you can't keep it a secret forever. Maybe he secretly does want a baby, but once the child is born he will love it no matter if he does or doesn't like children. There is just a bond. But just tell him, because it's his child to, and you won't be able to do it by yourself, goodluck!
2007-11-25 15:42:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...all i can really tell you is just to make it as serious as possible....
like just tell him you need to talk, just carefully and calmly tell him that you're pregnant and what you've thought of doing about it (if anything)
just pray that God will take whatever actions in life are necessary...because remember, everything happens for a reason. (if you decide to keep and raise your baby) someday when they're older, you'll look back on this and thank the Lord for coming through.
the same thing happened with my family and now we are one big giant happy family!
2007-11-25 15:44:48 · answer #3 · answered by crazy red head 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow to bad i think you should just be honest if your going to do the act then you both should pay the price me and my old g/f years ago like 10 years ago had this happen after a year of dating i could have been ok with it but she was not so she aborted it with out fully talking to me about it i regret it till this day then our relationship died..
2007-11-25 15:55:33 · answer #4 · answered by halicon2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow!!!!!!! You have to tell him sooner or later otherwise he is going to feel betrayed and if he really loves you he will stay with you and want to keep the baby for your sake.
2007-11-25 15:43:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better just to say it outright.
I'm sorry, this must be very hard for you. You will have to make some very difficult decisions then. But remember, they are YOUR decisions ....
Mind yourself, love.
2007-11-25 15:51:58 · answer #6 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey sweetie, i'm pregnant. but before you blame me, let me tell you one thing: you knocked me up, and i think WE should take responsibility for this child. and i'm sorry dear, there's nothing we could do about it.
how old are you? jeez, i'd hate to be you!
2007-11-25 15:44:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not good for you. Nope. Just tell him. Thats all you can do. Thats what happens wen ppl have sex.......duh. He will figure it out and deal with it accordingly.
2007-11-25 15:43:14 · answer #8 · answered by *My_Oh_My* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres no way to tell him
best is face to face
and hope for the best
dont fear!
2007-11-25 15:42:04 · answer #9 · answered by ur cute 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him in a non dramatic way
2007-11-25 15:42:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋