i need help?

Question

my sis is always mean to me and i want to know how to gwt her back any suggestions?

Answer 1

Tell your parents exactly what she does to you, and how you feel about it. Have a discussion where she, you and your parents talk about the problem.

Answer 2

You don't mention your ages.
Sometimes they act out because they need attention.
The only thing you can do is tell them, "Look, if you are going to act that way, I don't care to put up with you! I will only be around you if you behave and be nice." Then walk away... go to your room or go for a walk around the block to blow off the stress. If you refuse to get baited into their game, he will eventually get the idea.
A walk around the block is generally a good idea in any pressure-cooker situation. It will help you to keep from transferring that stress into other situations like school.
You can also offer the carrot-and-stick approach... we've just gone over the "stick". You can also "reward" her in some way... perhaps allowing her to wear something of yours, play a game with her or take her shopping or something like that.

Answer 3

don't get her back that's the worst thing you can do never stoop down to somebody's level like that. I go through the same thing with my brother and i can honostly say that it hurts at times but sometimes you will have to perserver. i know when you are both older you will bond like there is no tomorrow you should see my mom and her sister they used to fight all the time so i was told but they love each other alot. Just hang in there. The closest thing to a sister is a mom so instead of consentrating on your sister just focus on time with your mom. Hope this helps but remember don't get your sister back.

Answer 4

umm
thats what i used to think of my sis
who right now we are the best of friends
well what i did was first i went up to her straight and said"we really need to talk,i don't want to be like this for the rest of our lives"
then we talked evrything out!
=)
if ur too shy or scared of what might happen or if its weird for u to express your feeling
i would write a letter or even e-mail her
Hope everything work out for you two
=D
peace
bye

Answer 5

getting someone back is probably a great way to make yourself feel worse later for a moment pleasure...I think you may be better off both of you ...if you let her how much you are hurt by her cruelty...be sincere ...and honest...start off with ..."I love you but...it makes me feel bad when you ________________________________________"
life is so short please do not waste it stooping to peoples cruel actions seeking revenge....be the better person by kindly stated how it makes you feel...do not accuse or project her reaction and or response...sisters should be there for one another showing conditional love and support ...she really should be ashamed of herself for missing out on that most beautiful est of gifts...help her out my dear and let her know your pain and what a beautiful kind of sister she is missing out on instead of making it a senseless stupid battle that one day you too will regret...even if sadly enough she never does...I am sure she might have things to tell you that maybe you won't want to hear ....but allow her ...her time and ask what you can do to improve the situation...all relationships are about communication...compromises and compassion...best of love and luck to both of you my dear...

HAPPY HOLIDAYS to BOTH of YOU YOUNG LADIES!!!!

Answer 6

I wouldn't get back at her. It just makes things worse. Tell her how you feel.

Answer 7

if i was you id just give her a smack