I crushed on this guy before, but I'm not sure if I like him anymore. I see him in the halls and I try to avoid him. I don't duck, but I just weave my way to be unseen and just walk away. Yet, I do want him to notice me sometimes. But on the other hand, every time I see him, it makes me sad. Because he's avoiding me, too. We're both avoiding each other, it seems. (No, I don't think it's fun, either.) I'm not sad because we couldn't be together, but I'm sad because we couldn't be friends. But I guess that I should have seen from the beginning that we couldn't come together; we were too different. (They say opposites attract. I don't think we're opposites, but we are different.) Maybe it's my fault. I just don't have enough courage to go up to him and say hi. I guess I keep thinking of the embarrassment afterwards. (He's always with his friends.) I probably am pathetic. =D
Not sure what exactly I'm asking for, but maybe just what to do? Thanks.
2007-11-25 06:05:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, i don't think you sound pathetic but...
you could try to start walking past him in the halls confidently and biuld up to smiling at him. Then wait till her does the same as you continue. Then you could just try and slowly build that up saying him, waving, until you are confident enough to slow down stop and chat to him. Remember to stay confident!That's only if you feel like it. Or you could send him an email, but if you feel uncomfortable and awkward with him you might just not get along.
Also i don't think it's your fault becasue he hasn't said hi either!
angelgal_x
Hope everything works out for the best!
2007-11-25 06:11:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know you are not pathetic. You have two options, just ignore the situation, and it will probably go away. Just stop avoiding him and see if he says anything. If he doesn't it doesn't matter. You have to get over it. Your other option is to swallow your pride and walk up to him and say Hi. What would be the emabarrassment afterward? It's not like you'd be walking up to flirt, just say hi and move on. The rest is up to him. You've done what you could, and you can forget it. If he wants to be friends then he'll respond.
2007-11-25 14:14:25 · answer #2 · answered by Elsie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is he in any of your classes??? if he is maybe ask him a question to kinda start up a conversation if not im sure theres some time hes not with his friends and dont be embarrassed and your not pathetic you just dont know what to do just get up the confidence to go talk to him! :]]]]]
2007-11-25 14:12:19 · answer #3 · answered by Riss L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-11-25 14:08:14 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you guys avoid each other because you feel uncomfortable or awkward in that tense situation...i hate it so much when i get that feeling and i get real sad too...when this happened to me, i kinda just let it be like that and we drifted apart and he ended up moving and we never spoke ever again...if you would like to spark a friendship, then just go for it, try to make yourself comfortable talking to him like try online or something
2007-11-25 14:09:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes.....
u do not have 2 freak out over this 1 guy
2007-11-25 14:11:08 · answer #6 · answered by katelynmcannon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on life too short
2007-11-25 14:18:55 · answer #7 · answered by Live Love & laugh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋