well my ex bf and i were talkin and he asked me if i was a virgin. i said yea- i dont wanna do anything until after highschool. he said why and i said i just think its irresponsible and i dont want anything to happen. he said he wasnt. then he said nothing will happen if u use protection. i think it can tho. anyway he's been making those kinda comments 2 me and we're gonna hookup soon. i just really wanna think carefully b4 losing it to him. i know he really cares for me and i really like him. i really dont kno what to do.i dont want anything to happen like pregnancy- i also dont want God to be mad.
2007-11-25 05:59:35 · 6 answers · asked by nobody's kid 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is respectful.
2007-11-25 06:15:34 · update #1
Well first of all if he’s a TRUE boyfriend he would respect your wishes. NO questions ask about something as sincere as this matter. Trying to convince you into something like this wouldn’t be right no matter what. If you need to wait DO NOT go against that moral standing. He needs to be an ex again if he can’t except and understand that.
2007-11-25 06:12:02 · answer #1 · answered by Spirit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you use a condom, you're still not 100% protected. You're WAY safer than using NOTHING, so don't say "well then 'll just do it without one." But you'd be MUCH safer with birth control AND a condom, I'd suggest you wait until you're on the pill.
There's 3 educational web sites you need to go through before you even THINK about making that big leap.
http://youtube.com/watch?v=Q2HZkMjWyp8
http://www.sexetc.org
http://www.scarleteen.com
And finally, I'll tell you what I tell most kids who post this sort of "should I" question. Bases 1-3 can be JUST as fun or even MORE fun than sliding into home plate. http://www.sexetc.org/glossary/1111 Don't be in such a rush to try the ONE thing that could make you a teenage mother if you're unlucky.
2007-11-25 16:18:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first he's your ex!! I would think about this a lot more because things can happen even if u do use protection!!! there coulde be a hole in the condom and you could get a lot of diseases!! and if he's really pushing you i dont think its right!! If you really love him then go for it but i would suggest not doing it!
2007-11-28 20:51:36 · answer #3 · answered by smile4lyfe11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right that protection doesn't always work. It's good that you've chosen to not have sex yet. Ask God to help you be a good influence on him. If and when you go out with him, try not to be alone anywhere that it would be tempting to have sex. God bless!
2007-11-25 14:07:47 · answer #4 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
decide if you really wantto have sex with him or wait for someone you really love and then get protected against pregnancy but if you do say no then he should understand, dont do it just co he says so
2007-11-25 14:07:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really cared for you, he wouldn't be your ex boyfriend. God promotes sex after marriage, not before.
2007-11-25 14:04:03 · answer #6 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋