i'm a college girl, 19 years old. i have been seeing my current boyfriend for 9 months now. the deal is, 5 years ago (we were both 14 back then) we also had a relationship. things started to go down hill then after a year and a half and this other girl (sarah) started contacting him a loooot. she was always on AIM with him and stuff like that. at that time i started acting sort of b*tchy to my boyfriend because i was terrified. because i had changed so much, he started liking sarah and ended things with me. he then went out with her for 2.5 years. and a year or so later, i got back together with him.
the problem here: that girl sarah is pretty much a sl*t and is now going around hitting on my best girlfriend's boyfriend. she tells him how my girlfriend and i are silly sl*ts and liars that just don't like her because we think (!!) he stole my guy back then. she also said that my boyfriend was the one coming onto her back then, not the other way around.
2007-11-25 02:42:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she has said nasty things about me before, while i always try to be nice to her - because well, i may not like her much but i'm a friendly person, so i smile at her and always say hi. she always ignores me. friends of mine say that at summer camp she was also always the "camp-sl*t" and stuff like that. i know for a fact that she IS a liar, because she also told best friends' guy that i am still talking trash about her, which is not true.
now i'm starting to doubt whether perhaps my boyfriend WAS indeed the one coming onto her back then... and it's driving me nuts... her lies are even getting to me. i trusted him before this. now i don't know...
please help
2007-11-25 02:45:51 · update #1
i think i'm just scared that for once she may be telling the truth... and i don't know why this affects me so much, because my guy and i started over... =(
2007-11-25 02:51:40 · update #2
Don't believe Sarah, she's the sl*t. believe your boyfriend, not her. she's trying to ruin your relationship again. ignore her and tell her to leave you and your boyfriend alone. if you got any problems with her, email me: dianelenguyen@yahoo.com and I know how to handle it.
-HeartBrokenForever (Diane N)
2007-11-25 02:51:44 · answer #1 · answered by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
heres a hint. go talk to him about it.
2007-11-25 10:52:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she's a liar, forget about her and him and move on from there.
2007-11-25 10:50:39 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would pack him in and find som one new
2007-11-25 18:18:29 · answer #4 · answered by martin s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋