we did a play together for 3 months, and saw each other almost everyday. But I don't know that much about her. We usually didn't talk exclusively to each other, by which I mean we did talk one on one, but more common it was usually a group conversation. Se helped me with my hair and putting on my eyeliner (not my choice, my director wanted it). I never really showed any interest in her, only once I told her she had realy beautiful eyes (whcih she does). Would it seem weird or creepy if I ask her out the next time I saw her?
2007-11-25 01:44:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would say just keep talking to her. If she has MSN or whatever, talk to her a lot on there. If ever the opportunity arises where you can talk to her then do.
Also if you have her number, and you havn't chatted for a couple of days, send her a message saying something like:
'Hey, havn't spoken in a while, how are you?'
Just so she knows you don't forget her and that you make an effort. Then you'll just know when it seems right to ask her out. I wouldn't say wait a year, maybe a month...
2007-11-25 01:51:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are uncertain about whether she is interested in a relationship with you, I'd start out very, verly slowly. This way, you both have a way out of it (without hurt feelings). It could be that a flat out request for a date, may be too abrupt. You don't want to sound needy.
It's problaby best to find a less formal way to interact with her rather than a date. Perhaps a cup of tea or lunch together might be a good way to break the ice with her. If you share common interests, I'd suggest doing something that might be of interest to you both. (If you do date, maybe a dinner and play.)
After you interact with her a few times in informal situations, you'll get an idea of whether or not she might be interested in dating. Don't pressure her. It is usually best to develop a solid friendship before developing a more serious relationship.
2007-11-25 01:57:28 · answer #2 · answered by Skeptic 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
we all need and want attention and fattery...you need not know a person past two seconds to express desire and show interest its not only a friendly thing to do a fun process even if its as simple as making a friend ...
i think its not creepy at all...its never too late to allow someone into your life ...well hopefully you get there before commitment takes place to another...
not jumping straight in often times means more because you took more time getting to know the person ...
best of love and luck
2007-11-25 02:04:10 · answer #3 · answered by d j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you know her personiality. I you don't then its like going out with a complete stranger.
2007-11-25 01:58:31 · answer #4 · answered by the carefree asian ! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will be missing out if you do not do that. you only need a minute of her time to ask a girl out.
2007-11-25 01:49:34 · answer #5 · answered by Ewiase 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has to trust you if you ask her out
2007-11-25 02:25:13 · answer #6 · answered by Chase O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say a year.
2007-11-25 01:47:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋