We just talked for two straight hours and we always do this. I know that she likes me, but I never have to the courage to ask her out. Whenever the topic of hanging out comes up or I bring it up, I always choke and come up with something else. Is there any way to build confidence?
2007-11-24 18:34:40 · 17 answers · asked by bballplaya706 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
grow a spine.....
we have all been there.... do it for man kind, do it for your Hormones, do it because you can as your breathing and not 6 ft. under..... and if she smacks you down... lick your wounds and try it again on someone else....
she sounds sweet.. stop being an idiot.
2007-11-24 18:40:58 · answer #1 · answered by Maken trax 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, you're obviously nervous. You're scared for a rejection...If she likes you then you know she's going to say "Yes". If you don't ask her soon, she might be taken by another guy soon. Better now then never, I have encountered something similar to you last year, me and a girl would hang out, and talk. She liked me, I liked her. I was nervous to ask her out. So she got tired of waiting and went to the next guy. If you don't want that happening then you might want to hurry. Don't miss your chance, just ask her to a movie, or dinner. Start it off like that, get the relationship bulit up. Once you have it's a definate yes.
2007-11-24 18:44:47 · answer #2 · answered by Jah Jah Jah Jake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way that you are going to get more comfortable with this area is by doing it in real life.
Do not be afraid of rejection, you can even make it into a joke if she says something rude about it.
She is going to say yes anyways, because girls love it when guys make the first move.
Just go for it.
It will only make future relationships a lot smoother.
Good Luck!!!
2007-11-24 18:38:00 · answer #3 · answered by Blondieeee™ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well if you guys could take for two hours straight im sure it's not hard for both of you to hang out.. i mean if you are not sure whether she has really does have feelings for you then just hang out as friends and let some time pass and when you're really sure that she likes you and if you like her too then by all means go after her.. you shouldn't rush into relationship.. and trust me the better you know her the more comfortable you are in telling your feelings to her..
2007-11-24 18:39:49 · answer #4 · answered by LiNdA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey look. the proper way is the straightforward, immediately ahead way. yet, all of us's diverse and lots relies upon on ur proper significant different's personality. also, ask in inner most; saves humiliation (in case), u do not hav to inform the total international as quickly because it takes position and if asking in a crowd, responses would bring about peer rigidity. except that, the straightforward "will u go out with me?" is basic procedures to flow. desire this facilitates
2016-10-25 01:01:13 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've let the fear dominate you. It sounds like a sure bet that she'd like to go out with you, so just ask. Perhaps when you are having a discussion, say, "hey, I'm hungry, would you like to go get a bite to eat?" Or something similarly casual, as if it just occurred to you. Then you can move to something more formal later. Could it be the formality of a "DATE" that is frightening you?
If you are in high school, or college, you could invite her to go to a game, or school event that she might like to go to anyway. Good luck
2007-11-24 18:45:07 · answer #6 · answered by Jeanne B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just casually ask her if she wants to grab something to eat, go see a movie, or whatever with a couple friends. Just move it on up from there. Get both you and her more comfortable being around eachother. Then just start doing the same things with her exclusivley. It's all about getting comfortable which in turns bulids your confidence.
2007-11-24 18:40:12 · answer #7 · answered by Wif 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Say, "You know, let's continue this conversation some other time. You up for __________?(Insert good social scene here)
Keep it casual! Just gradually move your conversation to somewhere that is more social, yet isolated enough to carry a conversation. Even if she says no to something as innocent as that, you can brush it off really quickly. No sweat!
Here's what I think tho...
Go by your gut instincts, if she likes you, you have great odds of her saying the magic word: YES!
Good Luck!
2007-11-24 18:49:11 · answer #8 · answered by clarix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont need to ask her if she likes you or not.girls usually do not admit if they like the guy especially if they like him also.All you need to do is to make her feel comfortable whenever shes with you and to have time to know each other well.In this way you can build confidence and also was she.sometimes action speaks louder than voice.Get what I mean?
2007-11-24 18:42:45 · answer #9 · answered by mamilove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, would you be happy not being with her??? Nope... would you want to see her be swept away by someone else who she didn't like much, but had the courage to ask her out?? Nope... So, you know..... it's better if you just ask her out, because she seems to like you, and you like her too... You guys would be so much happier if you asked her out, right? besides.... it's better you try asking her out (rather than regretting it later in your life thinking about how things would have been if you had asked her out).... right?
2007-11-24 18:41:12 · answer #10 · answered by Sporty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes practice in the mirror until you are so comfortable saying it like 5 different ways and don't wait to long or someone may beat you to it good luck
2007-11-24 18:39:16 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋