i've heard this saying plenty times before. in songs and from different people. interestingly, i was listening to christen aguilera's "what a girl wants' and in want of her verses she says "If you love something let it go. if it comes back it's yours, and that's how you know. It's for keeps, yeah, it's for sure." its funny, im not afraid to admit, im a guy and i like this song. i was listening to this and hit me. it made me think about the girl i've been interested in since my sophomore year. this summer i had it set that i was going to move and i thought that maybe she just wasn't interested. funny, this year we take a class together(what a coincidence-maybe it's fate). when i saw her, i just thought u know u gotta move on. interestingly, she has asked me to study twice. and even before going home she asked to sit and eat with me at dinner. im not saying she likes me but, it is funny that she is doing the asking and not me. what do you guys think
2007-11-24 18:17:44 · 20 answers · asked by mikerob08 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop torturing her, and go for it!
2007-11-24 18:23:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I've never had any personal experience with this. And, I have no idea if it's true. But, were you giving her a lot of attention before you decided to move on? If so, she could have started to miss the attention, so she decided to take an interest in you. If you feel a connection with her then I suggest you ask her to hang out...or on a date. Whatever you think that she would be comfortable with.
True or not, you've definetely got her now...so, take advantage of it and start getting to know eachother =). Good luck!
2007-11-24 18:23:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're interest in her then get to know her better, then ask her out.You never know she could end up being a great friend or a really great girlfriend. Word of advise; IF, she becomes your girlfriend, do not follow the Christine Aguilar song. The best thing to do is if you care about someone, and they care about you, is not to test it. You may be very dis appointed in the results. It's just a song, it's not real life.
2007-11-24 18:27:01 · answer #3 · answered by ricepat2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a girl and i'd say she is a little interested, but us girls get bored with guys quickly if they don't make the first move, so if you want this girl, make your move.
2007-11-24 18:22:01 · answer #4 · answered by BlissfullyHappy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she likes you? Dont miss your chance make a move and show her you are interested.
2007-11-24 18:20:27 · answer #5 · answered by Canuck2222 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its true, whatever is for you is yours. it just depends on the right place and right time. it came back, so spend time with her, it wont hurt anything. besides, you can end up being close friends. so why not? :) better to take risk than not doing anythin!
2007-11-24 18:21:39 · answer #6 · answered by ~desa~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have a very good point here. Good luck. She sounds interested in you.
2007-11-24 18:22:10 · answer #7 · answered by Clueless 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i love this story! and i think its so true; you really do find the things you want most by not looking for them! thanks for posting it, it really made me feel better and gave me some perspective, and I think that the lyrics to christina's song are definitely true. let it flow, and things will happen. good luck! =)
2007-11-24 18:23:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. Abscence makes the heart grow fonder. She likes you go for it.
2007-11-24 18:21:14 · answer #9 · answered by joanniebean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feelin' lucky eh? u happy bro!
2007-11-24 18:21:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get out more.
2007-11-24 18:27:21 · answer #11 · answered by Firebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋