I was with my boyfriend (who is now my ex) since Febuary 2007 on and off 'till August 2007. The last time we made up (got back together again) was the 1st day of high school (August 2007) One of the reasons we kept making up and breaking up so much was because well he plays basketball on a team and of course they're are cheerleaders there. People say he was with 3 of them...but that was just a rumor and I only found that out when we broke up, which was when I found out that he liked a girl named Brittany we are friends (but I'm kind of faking with her) Anyways the point is I still like my ex maybe I love him. I sent him a text message saying I did but he didn't get the text. I even asked. Do you think he is lieing? I would just go up to him and say I want to be with him like I always did and then he said yea, he liked me too. I can tell he likes me but...I have a boyfriend already I like my boyfriend and I like my ex. Advice please!!
2007-11-24 15:31:19 · 16 answers · asked by :D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well he's maybe confused it's best if you move on cuz if he wants you back he'll come around but he doesn't then the guy you have now will still be their! But don't wait around for your ex cuz maybe he's already moved on
2007-11-24 15:36:53 · answer #1 · answered by city girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him that much and he can't see it then he is a fool. But dont waste your time on someone who is not ready to be true to you. If you know you sent the text and he lies about getting it, then maybe he is lying about a whole heap of other things. If a man wants you then he will try to get you and you wont have to go running after him. Hope this helps.
2007-11-24 15:37:25 · answer #2 · answered by Mslovely101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, don't do anything until you choose one. don't date both, whatever you do. Ask yourself which one cares more about me and respects me? Maybe you should try giving your ex some space and just take a break from guys to figure stuff out. Don't tell someone you like them by txting them, tell him in person, and even if he doesn't like you, your feelings won't be bottled up inside. Get to know your ex as a friend first. and if you want to break up with your bf, do it in person, it will hurt him no matter what, just do it nicely. good luck
2007-11-24 15:36:56 · answer #3 · answered by arielle s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just concentrate on being friends with both of them and don't get too serious with either of them yet. Once you finish school and get out, and perhaps go to college, you will meet other guys who may be better than both of these guys. there is a whole world out here you should experience before you get tied down with a serious relationship, marriage or children.. If one of these guys is serious about you they will wait for you to be ready to get into something more serious and if they push you now, they may just be hoping for sex with you, or just spending time with you without thinking of any possible future. It has to do with life choices and I will give you a good site for that. Good Luck to you!!
2007-11-24 15:45:38 · answer #4 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oops, stuck in the middle! Not the best position around. Anyways, whomever you like, or even love, more should be your boy friend. I know, it's easier to say then do. I know it is. But I'd say your current boy friend. The other dude seems a little like a cheater. No offence! :)
2007-11-24 15:36:49 · answer #5 · answered by Mickey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i live with my ex. i am a guy and well she brings her boyfriend around and well yeah still hurts every time. i was with her for 4 years. you need to figure out what you gona do soon
my sugestion. you dont need this crap from him. if he cared he would have killed those rumors from the start.
wille it hurts every time i see them together i think its best to move on and try to forget everything.
2007-11-24 15:37:50 · answer #6 · answered by Apocalipce Industries 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in high school, and in the 4th grade you learned that you drop the "e" and add "ing"
I just had to say that....
to answer your question.
You have a b/f, stop chasing your ex. Be a lady.
2007-11-24 15:36:52 · answer #7 · answered by lynnn30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretty tough dilema. Uhh...jeez. Just decide which one you like more and then tell your ex if he is the one. Make sure you are making him happy and he isn't ******* around with you. Do what you think is best from there.
2007-11-24 15:35:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? This sounds like something I did when I was in jr. high ...lol...Just stick with the new guy and see where that goes...dont worry about your ex too much. If its meant to happen...then it will happen.
2007-11-24 15:34:59 · answer #9 · answered by MzNikkiLC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think ur ex is lie n about th txt............
I wouldnt say anything 2 him if he doesnt reply ur txt or anything else b cause hes stubborn and I think that u and ur new guy should just ignore them and go with ur lives
2007-11-24 15:43:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋