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This 1 guy really screwed up(cheated on me)and I never could tell if he was trying 2 apologize, or was just being a jerk.
He tried to buy me stuff while he was on his trip to Mexico visiting family, did I totally ruin a great catch?
If so what can I do 2 fix it or make it up 2 him?

2007-11-24 14:39:52 · 10 answers · asked by Kt Fay 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

10 answers

dont be a girl who can be bought off!
once a cheater.. always a cheater.
if he did it once, and u take him back, it just makes it ok for him to do it again.

and why would you even consider taking him back, just bacause he bought u stuff?

2007-11-24 14:47:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Uhhhh no, you didn't ruin a great catch. He cheated on you. You only ruined it if you cheated on him first. Any other reason may have been worked out between the two of you. But sometimes even talking about it doesn't work and you realize you weren't meant for eachother. Its all on how you feel. Do yourself a favor and hang with friends and family, it will give you a better perspective on things.

2007-11-24 14:47:43 · answer #2 · answered by 7Min2Midnite 1 · 0 0

I don't know about you, but I have two main rules when in a relationship; 1. no cheating and 2. no abuse. If either of those get broken there are no second chances.
He cheated on you once, he will do it again. Anyone who puts their partner in danger (which he did, sexual diseases are very prominent these days) they do not truely want to be with that person.
Get rid of him once and for all, if you don't then you're an idiot.

2007-11-24 14:49:06 · answer #3 · answered by static_nerdling 3 · 0 0

No, you didn't ruin anything-it sounds like he's the one that ruined a great catch-HES A CHHEEEAAATTT! You deserve someone better-Hes out there now go on and find him girl, good luck with all that ; )

2007-11-24 14:47:38 · answer #4 · answered by andi 2 · 0 0

Hmm a guy cheats on you and thats a "good catch"?
I hope you learn the difference between a good catch and bad one before you get married hon.

2007-11-24 14:45:31 · answer #5 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0 0

Just because he spends money on you doesn't mean he's worth keeping. He cheated on you. And screwed up. Kinda overshadows the whole "he buys stuff for me" thing.

2007-11-24 14:52:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

No way hes testing you! He wants to see if he can win your love with gifts. You have to show this boy that your love is not for sale. And that you cannot be bought with a gift of any sort!

2007-11-24 14:45:53 · answer #7 · answered by Me Myself & I 4 · 0 0

make up to him? Honey, he cheated on you. If you really think that he won't again, then you may forgive him if you can...you don't owe him an apology so stop feeling guilty b/c he screwed up.

2007-11-24 14:45:38 · answer #8 · answered by Showmefire 3 · 1 0

A great catch? A cheater and a Mexican to boot. Do you really have to ask?

2007-11-24 14:44:08 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 1 0

Do you still like him? If so, you can find out if he really is sorry. Pretend to ignore him and hate him for a while. This will get to him.

2007-11-24 14:45:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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