I lost my dad this morning and as of right now i really don't know what to do i feel lost in fact i feel no emotion at all and it scares me that i can be this calm. Im gonna go to church tomorrow morning and see if the pastor can help me through this tough time but i need all the help i can get cause i really feel like at sometime i may loose it and completely break down cause i was real close to my father and im taking it really hard. any prayer and help right now would be appreciated.
2007-11-24 14:36:38 · 15 answers · asked by PupeTTo Loco 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
sorry to hear about your dad. i know that it is hard to deal with the pain but keep a prayer in your heart and god will help you deal with things. i will pray for you and your family. prayer is a wonderful and powerful thing.
2007-11-24 14:46:23 · answer #1 · answered by boo 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
My dear you are already in my prayers. I pray the lord will give you the comfort you need to get through your fathers passing. I have been blessed with many prayers for my daughter and it is such a comfort to know the Lord is with you. I know he will be right by your side, as you move forward. Please feel free to vent , as it will do you good to let it all out. The Lord will be there to comfort you through your tears. I am doing a lot of that right now. myself. God Bless and be with you always.
2007-11-26 17:07:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will be praying for you. I am so sorry about your dad...this has to be devastating for you. Your emotions will come....and when they do, no matter where you are...let them out. I am glad you have a supportive pastor. Stay close to people who care about you...that will help. Talk to God and tell Him how you feel....He does care and will listen. He will help you through this. Email if you need to talk to someone. Take care....
On-call Prayer Warrior
2007-11-26 13:05:56 · answer #3 · answered by bethy4jesus 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My Dear precious Friend, You are doing the right thing By turning to God And His People for Prayer at this time. You must know that God's Grace is sufficient......and He will strengthen You, Like You Never Knew before. I Learned this very quickly when I re'd News Of my 4I Yr;old son's death, My Husband (killed in a car crash) and my Precious Mother (who died in my arms.)! It was very difficult at first, then I Found that God's Grace was surely Helping Me and Strengthening Me. And I Dwelled on the fact that God Loved them so much, He wanted them with HIM Now......I had them Long enough. So, Please don't think about How you may "Fall apart" Dear. You are going to run on God's Strength and Grace And Love....THIS IS WHAT YOUR FATHER WOULD WANT! You Be strong, and take care of yourself and Trust God! I am going to be praying for you daily....and You will be alright Knowing that Your Father is with Jesus. God Bless You.
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2007-11-24 23:26:15 · answer #4 · answered by minnetta c 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh, how my heart sank when I read this! I have lost many and I am so sorry about your precious Dad!
Yes, you will face some hard times, in the coming days, months and so forth. However, I am praying God will be near you and comfort you. That when the true "sting of death" comes, God will have His Angels, encamped around you to gather each tear and embrace your heart. May the Lord God walk with you and remember to lean on Him, He is always there!
If you ever need to talk...e-mail me!
Gail
2007-11-24 22:50:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
It is ok to break down. People will understand. If it is better for you, you can do it in private. I am glad you are going to church, as there will be someone to help you. Both of my parents are gone, so I can relate to your sorrow.
I will be praying for your comfort during this hard time. E mail me if you want to talk more.
†Prayer Warrior At Your Request†
2007-11-25 17:20:14 · answer #6 · answered by electroprayer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry to hear about your dad, I know how you feel. I was really close to my grandfather, and when he died last year it was hard. I couldn't cry at first, but when I did I let it all out and I remembered all the good times I had with him. I told myself that he was in a better place. He is with Jesus. We want them with us, but he is with the angels. It took awhile for the tears to stop, but find your comfort in God, and in your family and your close friends.
2007-11-28 10:49:01 · answer #7 · answered by Godsgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I can pray for you. Let yourself grieve. There is nothing wrong with you that this is so hard. Even when time goes on, there will be moments that surprise you and you will temporarily find yourself back where you are at right now. It is OK. It is normal. Furthermore, it is good that you are looking for help. ((HUGS))
2007-11-28 18:13:11 · answer #8 · answered by gwenolabar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry to hear your father passed away. It is good that you and your dad were close, because you are left with wonderful memories to cherish. I will be praying that the Lord enclose you in His arms and hold you close to Him in the days, weeks, months and years to come. God bless you!!!
Lovingly,
Virginia
2007-11-24 23:04:42 · answer #9 · answered by Virginia B (John 16:33) 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
my condolences go out to you and your loss of your father. this time, you should definitely see the pastor or anybody you trust, seek family and friend help, but pray too...Once again, i hope you stay safe in this troubled time.
:)
2007-11-24 23:14:41 · answer #10 · answered by Spek 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋