A long time ago I thought that love was something that you reserved for some special set of people that you had judged worthy of it.
After a while I got to thinking about what Jesus had said about turning the other cheek and loving our neighbor I put the two together and realized that he had made no exceptions in these statements. It became obvious to me that he intended that we exclude no one from the love that we are supposed to be giving. I started thinking about my idea of love and suddenly realized that I had not been loving anyone at all. I had simply been judging everyone and every thing.
Judging someone worthy of love is not love, it is only judgment. I actually started to cry when I realized this. I saw just how much of my life I had wasted being judgmental, thinking of myself as a Christian, when I was actually doing just the opposite of what Jesus had asked us to do.
I thought about the verse judge not lest ye be judged, and I understood it for the first time.
I realized that I have a lot of catching up to do. So many opportunities were wasted. I now try to apply the love that I have for the world in a universal way like Jesus asks us to do.
If I start to feel afraid and think that I see someone that I should not love because of something I have thought or heard I try to catch my mistake as soon as possible. I tell myself that I have forgot the truth and have fallen for the same old trick that had cost me so many opportunities to be loving in the past. The horror of this realization is often all that is necessary to bring me back to my senses and make me drop the judgmental nonsense I was thinking.
I still have a lot to learn about love, but at least I’m making progress.
Love and blessings
Your brother
don
2007-11-24 14:39:47
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answer #1
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answered by Anonymous
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1. Love is patient, love is kind.
2. Love does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.
3. Love is not rude, it is not self-seeking.
4. Love is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.
5. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.
6. Love always protects, always trusts, always perseveres.
7. Love never fails.
8. And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.
9. God is love.
2007-11-24 22:47:23
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answered by Music and dancing 6
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Not sure what you are talking about.
There are nine fruits of the spirit - Galatians 5:
22 On the other hand, the fruitage of the spirit is love, joy, peace, long-suffering, kindness, goodness, faith, 23 mildness, self-control. Against such things there is no law.
There are the nine happinesses - Matthew 5:
3“Happy are those conscious of their spiritual need, since the kingdom of the heavens belongs to them.
4 “Happy are those who mourn, since they will be comforted.
5 “Happy are the mild-tempered ones, since they will inherit the earth.
6 “Happy are those hungering and thirsting for righteousness, since they will be filled.
7 “Happy are the merciful, since they will be shown mercy.
8 “Happy are the pure in heart, since they will see God.
9 “Happy are the peaceable, since they will be called ‘sons of God.’
10 “Happy are those who have been persecuted for righteousness’ sake, since the kingdom of the heavens belongs to them.
11 “Happy are YOU when people reproach YOU and persecute YOU and lyingly say every sort of wicked thing against YOU for my sake. 12 Rejoice and leap for joy, since YOUR reward is great in the heavens; for in that way they persecuted the prophets prior to YOU.
Not sure about the "lessons on love".
2007-11-24 22:40:06
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answered by eliz_esc 6
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Love is a very important part of Christianity and its in the bible. Read this article I wrote about Love, just follow the source link to read it. God Bless!
2007-11-26 22:17:06
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answered by Pablo Miguel 1
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There are many in the book of proverbs
2007-11-24 22:39:32
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answered by guitarrman45 7
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