I am always sad, I can cry so easily and cry often. I am going through so much stress, I moved to a new city to go to law school with my BF of 2 years then 6 months in he became verbally abuse and emotionally absent and void. I still see him everyday and try so hard to get him to want me (I know that sounds pathetic and the thing is that I don't really want to be with him, I just want to reject him like he did me). I gained 15lbs this summer so none of my clothes fit and I am uncomfortable in my body, I don't get along with my mom at all so I am mean to her b/c she has no idea how to interact with me I am a no-nonsense type of person and with her everything is some corny joke or lie. I just want to be happy! what can I do?
2007-11-24 14:17:13 · 6 answers · asked by ~♥ Sicilia D ♥~ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you need to focus on you for a little while.buy you nice things and go out in the world you don't know anything about.Scope out some fun places that you have heard and read about in that city.i'm sure you can be pampered somewhere there in that city.I hope you will find HAPPINESS real soon in that stupid *** city.
2007-11-24 14:31:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit down, detach from all the emotional baggage and make some plans.
You can't make the BF want you, the idea of dragging his abusive self back just so you can do that to him is immature to say the least. If you are sharing an apartment, you need to find a different roommate situation.
So just move on and meet people and make some friends. The best revenge is living well.
So you are in a new city... that means you have the opportunity to reinvent yourself.
Start on a walking program and drop the carbs from your diet.
If you get the chance... go to the library and find a DVD called "The Secret" and watch that... and take notes. Wrap your head around these concepts and then apply them in your life.
2007-11-24 23:18:05 · answer #2 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only true happiness comes from a relationship with God thru Jesus Christ. Seek him with all your heart. Read your Bible daily and ask him to direct you to a good church. If you give him a chance, he will change your life. You'll have peace and be content.
2007-11-24 22:22:54 · answer #3 · answered by wildflower 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Andrea, I want you to understand that we can only make ourselves happy! If we wait for others to do this...we may never be happy because of expectations and such. That is why, I believe, we are not truly happy until we connect to the One who created our souls. Through a relationship, with God, things tend to be more clear. If we allow God, He can take away much of our sorrow!
My advice to you, pray and ask God to come into your heart. Ask Him to guide your paths and seek HIM through scriptures, prayer and in all things. You will experience His joy, peace and love...if only you desire.
Know, I am praying for you and for your happiness and closeness to your Creator!
May the peace of God, be with you,
gail
2007-11-24 23:00:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find something that takes your mind off everything such as running/ exercising or watching a movie or reading, etc. anything!! even if it is just for 15 minutes. it gives you a chance to take a break and relax by doing something you enjoy. its only 15 minutes, you can put anything off for 15 minutes if it makes you feel better. this always works for me. or get a pet... another thing that worked for me.
2007-11-24 22:22:58 · answer #5 · answered by atlanta22 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wildflower is right. Jesus can make everything alright for you. You will have so much peace and He will work it out for you too. You will never regret that decision. Just ask Him to come into your heart and ask for forgiveness for your sins. It is that easy and your life will change dramatically.
2007-11-24 22:27:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋