Pre-marital sex?

Question

If having sex before marriage is a sin in a true Christians eyes, and God's eyes. Can I still receive oral if it's not technically sex?

Answer 1

I am American, born and raised here in the US, but after reading Majeed's response, I really wonder what it would be like to have been born in that society... To be honest, it sounds like heaven to me... I really think divorce is a huge problem in this country, damaging kids, and he's right, all students care about these days is drinking, drugs, and sex... I think his description of the Muslim way, with unending love between husband and wife, is beautiful... I would love to have that, but its nothing but an unrealistic fantasy in our warped society...

And I would be more than happy to be covered from head to toe myself if everybody else had to also; it would mean that my husband would not be surrounded by half-naked slutts all day and night like he is now... are you kidding? I'd consider it a blessing if all of us women had to be covered up all the time!!! Think about it!!!!

Answer 2

Is pre-marital sex, sinning? What constitutes marriage? If a court which can not recognize God, has to sanction marriage are you indeed married unless you do so before God? What can you do that is not directly in the eyes of God? Who determines whether or not you are married other than God? A preacher can do the ceremony, but the two individuals have the perform the marriage.
Oral is not only sex but extremely FUN sex... If your desire to live right makes you feel guilty about having sex don't. I would caution that the reason that sex is taboo is the spiritual connotation of the two bodies coming together as one, in a sense becoming spiritually one. If you join with a big bowl of filth doesn't that make half of you filth? At least that's the thought...

Answer 3

In Jewish law, sex is not considered shameful, sinful or obscene. Sex is not thought of as a necessary evil for the sole purpose of procreation. Although sexual desire comes from the yetzer ra (the evil impulse), it is no more evil than hunger or thirst, which also come from the yetzer ra. Like hunger, thirst or other basic instincts, sexual desire must be controlled and channeled, satisfied at the proper time, place and manner. But when sexual desire is satisfied between a husband and wife at the proper time, out of mutual love and desire, sex is a mitzvah.

Sex is permissible only within the context of a marriage. In Judaism, sex is not merely a way of experiencing physical pleasure. It is an act of immense significance, which requires commitment and responsibility. The requirement of marriage before sex ensures that sense of commitment and responsibility. Jewish law also forbids sexual contact short of intercourse outside of the context of marriage, recognizing that such contact will inevitably lead to intercourse.

Answer 4

oral thats not mean nothing now if you said oral sex it does make a sentence so since is sex prior to marriage is a sin fornication the bible says the fornicators will not live in the new system did not say if is oral or if it doesnt penetrate simple as this

Answer 5

Oral sex is haraam(Forbidden) because you are reducing your wife to the status of a dog or animal. If a woman makes her husband give her oral sex she is reducing him to the status of an animal as well. Anal sex is also haraam because sex is for procreation and a man can not get a woman pregnant by behaving like an animal and having sex with her inside her @$$.

Answer 6

No, but you can drop Christianity. There are quite a number of religions that don't have a hangup about sex.

Or, if you're really brave, just go without religion for a while. It's actually a lot better than you'd think at first.

Cheers!

Answer 7

Your mind is full of evil thoughts. You must stay away from from those who will ruin your this life as well as your next life.
This is why Islam teaches girls to never be alone with a male unless he is your real brother, father, brohter of father or mother. God teaches women in all scriptures to safe guard your chastity. Muslim girls don't do sex before marriage and their parents make sure that they never go out with any one and neither girls are ever alone with any male. When the chaste boys and girls get married. They remaine committed to each other. This is why divorces in Muslim countries is not even 1%. In USA it has reached to 55% within in five years of marriage.

Think how many children suffer because of divorces, how many have psychiatric problems, how many have to live with step fathers or step mothers and hate their lives, how many girls get raped by their step fathers. They get a vaccum in their life which haunt them rest of their lives. This is the reason why Asians, Indians, Pakistani and Arab students in America excell in schools and their higher percentage finish colleges and better their lives as compared to American students. American colleges students think nothing but sex on weekends instead of doing home work and earn better grades.

Stay virgin and keep your soul free from all forms of sins, so you get ever lasting love from your future husband. And also make sure that you choose a virtuous man who is also virgin so he can appreciate you that you saved yourself for him to love you for ever.

Any one who leaves you because you will not have sex with him, doesn't love you and it is not worth wasting your honor with such a person. One who really loves you will wait for you.

This is what Jesus, Mohammad, Moses and Abraham taught all humans they preached in their times.

Answer 8

Oral sex is sex, it is just not intercourse. With that said you should decide for your self if you want to have sex. Don't let some old book define you.

Answer 9

oral is sex

the word translated fornication is originally "porneia" and it refers to any sex act outside of the marriage arrangement.

sorry.

Answer 10

Getting naked in front of a girl and getting all touchy feely with her is a very grave sin! You will be judged by god!