My last question pretty much sums it up. You cant possibly know how i feel, or you wouldnt give such Hurtful answers. Tonight i Prayed. I prayed for the first time in my life. I asked God to help me gt through this, but i cant wait on him anymore. This girl has turned my life into a bottomless pit of pure shame and depression. Im 16 years old, and i may be stupid for doing this over a girl, but i have nothing left to live for....My family doesnt support me through anything, my friends doesnt take it seriously, theres nothing left to do. Tonight at midnight, i may kill myself and i want this question to be used as why i have commited this terrible act of depression, The only thing i have left to say is....I Truly do love you Kayla, More then you will ever know. And i will always be in your heart. You were my reason for living. I love you my Juliet. I Cant think of the good times anymore. They only hurt me. In my heart, you will always be my Juliet. i guess we both know i was never what
2007-11-24 10:45:12 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
you truly deserved, i wish now more then ever that i would have treated you like the princess that you are, and gave you everything you ever wanted.....I love you. Goodbye Kayla, I hope to see you soon.....My Juliet.
2007-11-24 10:46:29 · update #1
Love Always,
Your Fairytale Prince/Romeo.
2007-11-24 10:48:20 · update #2
Honey, I have to tell you that when girls are too young to be that serious it scares the daylights out of them if they are not ready for that heavy of a commitment. It really doesn't have as much to do with you as it does with their youthfulness. Be patient, be a friend until she is older and ready to be more serious. Let her be a kid a while longer. You have a very long life ahead of you. When I was 10, 16 was unreachable. At 16, I never dreamed I would make it to 25. It sounded far fetched and now here I am at 61 and what a surprise...it wasn't all that bad because God takes everything you think is a negative and turns it into a positve if you Love Him. Life is good and God wants us to be happy, peaceful and joyful. Mankind has the power of choice and when he messes up, God is there, like a loving friend, to lean on so that we will never have to be alone. You must have some powerful gifts to offer God for Satan to put ideas in your head to off yourself. He works hardest on those that have the most to give. Father in Heaven, Be with this young man as he makes choices for his life. Help him to reach out beyond himself and be a blessing to all those around him. Help him to develop good work habits, life habits and a good mind so that he will be productive for You and the rest of society. Help him to make a difference and uplift others. Forgive us all Father when we fail you and help us to be ready when you come to take us home....In Jesus name
† Heaven Bound Prayer Warrior †
"Look up for your redemption draweth nigh". Mmm
2007-11-27 18:49:18 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell me by killing yourself do you think you will gain anytihng, all you will do is run from the problem, I can understand what you feel for I have to also felt how you feel but never the less if you kill yourself you will do nothing for anyone, your 16 years will become futile and meaningless your time spent with that girl you love so much will become worthless, think about that girl she will forever have to suffer with the thought that she lead to your suicide, no matter how you feel your parents feel about you they will still be devastated more so than you know if you cut YOUR own life short remember you will get no where by suicide, Suicide is not by any means a valiant or comfortable way to die and once you have pulled the plug there is not putting it back in.
I dont mean to sound harsh I only wish that you turn away from suicide and talk to a close friend or call a hotline etc...
2007-11-24 11:00:33 · answer #2 · answered by Max Y 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'll be praying for you. First of all for your peace in this matter, then for the wisdom of the doctors to determine the best treatment options for you. I don't know if this will be any consolation or not, but my former sister in law had the same situation (bleeding from her breast) and was convinced it was cancer. Through medical tests, the bleeding from her nipples turned out to be something relating to her hormones instead of being cancerous. So, this may not be cancer at all. I know when things are stressful, it's hard not to think on bad things and it's easy to get tunnel vision, but take things one day at a time. Cancer treatments are improving all the time, and you are doing everything you can to increase your chances of survival. You did a breast self-exam and you're going to the doctors. Now, it's time to rest until you see the doctor. You've also asked for prayers, and yes, I will be praying for you. Take care and let God do the worrying tonight, okay? EDIT: We'll want to know how things turned out for you. Could you send me an e-mail message via my avatar and let me know how the test results come out (just remind me that you had the breast cancer scare)???
2016-04-05 07:17:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok where to start i was 16 once and i was a horrible teenager i use to give my parents a bunch of crap all the time i was always doing things i wasnt suppose to do ... why am i telling u this .. it is because my family didnt support when i was ur age i was so mean to my parents i didnt listen so on and so on ... but as u get older u will learn that it changes in most cases so it may in yours as for kayla i do not know what is going on with you and kayla but if ur heart is broken know that this happens to everyone and it will eithier heal or it may help u grow stronger ... depression is something i seem to live with in a small dose i am always wondering and pndering why i am where i am today and hoping that it will get better i am 25 and in no way where i want to be you are sixteen you still have a full life ahead of you .. and as for ur friends remember they too are sixteen years old i am not being insulting when i say this but you and your friends are still growing and maturing they are not taking u seriously maybe because of their age i am not a medical doctor i do not know but i will be praying for u and if u must please im me at hazel_629 ... i have a friend who is in ur position alot and i see how much he gets hurt and how he deals with it mainly cause it is a female who is hurting you .. i dont know if this helps you or not but i hope it does .. and please find someone to talk to now !!
2007-11-24 11:06:49 · answer #4 · answered by hazel_629 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u think this girl is going to respect u if u take your own life. your 16, and don't understand that in life we have hurts and disappointments and u have to deal with disappointment. u have your entire life before u, and u want to end it, yes its wrong especially over one girl. depression is quite normal when your in love and u get rejected, u do feel as if its the end of the world. but its not really its just part of growing up, and dealing with hurts. she won't be the last girl in your life, that is unless u decide to end it tonight. but think about the wife u will never know, the children u will never have, the life u will never have. its not the hurt but how u choose to handle it, u can play the victim, and that won't help your ego, or u can rise above it and find a new love and let this one go on her merry way. she isn't the only fish in the sea.
2007-11-24 11:38:22 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you are able to read this not because I have the answers but because I have been there myself. I attempted suicide several times over a girl who I thought I could not live without. The Lord saw fit to save me in the midst of my stupidity, even though I thought it was the only way for the pain to go away. I have a bone screw in my ankle from the surgery after jumping from a 3-story building. I had to spend some time in an institution for that stunt. She still left me. I struggled for years and to tell you the truth, I sometimes still miss her, and nearly forty years have gone by. The Lord helped me through those tough times and made me aware of how much He loved me and that got me through. I eventually remarried and had 5 kids and 7 grandkids and we are still together. So do not give up hope because the pain you are in now will diminish over time and I am sure you will find someone to love you. Just hang in there and keep praying. Jesus will reveal Himself to you and let you know how much He loves you, just as He did me.
2007-11-25 15:33:16 · answer #6 · answered by Pastor Rick 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are so young and there will be other girls in your future. Believe me, when I was 17 I had a boy break up with me and I was devastated. I am with someone now for the last 5 years and he is the love of my life. We are getting married.Please don't end your life because of a girl. Like I said you are so young and you have a lot of living to do. Girls will come and go throughout your adolescent years, but continue on and one day you will find yourself with the person that is meant for you.
How will your family and loved ones feel if you take your life? They would live with the pain for the rest of their lives. Talk with someone that you trust. See a psychologist. Call a suicide hotline, but please do not take your life. It is not worth it. Call right now, at least give the hotline a try, what have you got to lose if you call? I am sure that you are more important to people than you realize. Please please please get help.
2007-11-24 11:19:17 · answer #7 · answered by Piluli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My young friend, I am 50 years older than you and have endured more frustrations, disappointments, hurts and betrayals than you can imagine in your young brain.
If I had not had the strength and willpower to pick myself up and dust myself off and press on I would have missed more blessings than you can imagine.
There are times life really sucks. And there are other times you almost can't handle the joy of living.
The Bible calls this world a "vale of tears," and it does so for a reason. Congratulations on finally discovering prayer. Try it again and preface it with thanking God for some of the blessings you have experienced--and I will guarantee you there have been many in your life.
You just might want to stick around for a few more blessings. They will come.
2007-11-25 18:27:28 · answer #8 · answered by Warren D 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hey buddy... I know how you feel I got dumped recently and I loved her with everything. I was left without friends, terrible in school, and worst of all I lost myself in the process...
lets work on this together. I also felt like committing suicide... but that is the easy way out. I now want to take revenge and do better than her in life. Use her as a motive but concentrate on yourself. This is not a quick and easy process... it may take YEARS but we can do it
please re consider, talk to a councilor if you have to. Its a normal thing that everyone does
2007-11-24 14:20:51 · answer #9 · answered by cookware 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is no reason in this world why a 16 year old person should end his or her life over a failed relationship. Relationships come and go during your teen years! What do you mean you have nothing left to live for? You have your entire life! Make something out of it, don't rely on a girl!!!!
2007-11-24 10:57:26 · answer #10 · answered by smileyc117 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋