How would you react? Feel? What would you do if the people you have to ask help from already know you're suffering and in deep s***?
2007-11-24 10:36:32 · 3 answers · asked by Sam Y 3 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Thank you all three of you for such kind, thoughful advice
2007-11-24 14:35:20 · update #1
Use this as an opportunity to look for solutions on your own... it's very rewarding to do it without depending on others.
If you don't know where to turn, be specific about the problem and people here might give you some ideas.
In other words, see if you can make lemonade from the sour situation.
2007-11-24 10:47:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because you need time to learn coping techniques. When you are feeling bad and suffering, that is what you are feeling, bad and suffering and no one is going to be able to help you while you are in the big black hole feeling bad and suffering. However once you crawl out, then that is the time when you will be open to help. I have Rheumatoid Arthritis and when its bad, I just want to crawl into a hole and stay their, I do not want anyone around me because while I am suffering, I can see their reaction to my suffering. Once this time has passed, then I want people to come in and help, because I really do not want to go back into that extreme pain period. Its too late for help if I am in too much pain!
2007-11-24 18:49:14 · answer #2 · answered by gillianprowe 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
TRUSTING AND NOT TRUSTING ARE TWO EQUALLY DANGEROUS THINGS.
YOU MAY TRUST AND BE DISAPPOINTED AFTERWARDS,OR YOU MAY NOT TRUST AND REGRET AFTERWARDS.
SO THE BEST THING TO DO IN ORDER TO GET OUT OF THIS DILEMMA IS TO NOT MAKE TOO QUICK ,HALF COOKED DECISIONS IN EITHER OF CASES MENTIONED ABOVE.WAIT STUDY AND SEE,THEN MAKE A PRUDENT DECISION,CAREFULLY,IT IS WORTHWHILE .
2007-11-24 19:15:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋