Personally, cheating aint for me. I'd rather just end the relationship and move on...we obviously know that not all people think like this, so, is it ever "OKAY" to cheat on your partner?
I don't think so, but let's see what some of you think.
2007-11-24 09:01:11 · 16 answers · asked by ☼ Latina Loca loves Yayo ☼ 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think it can be justified. I mean if you want to be with someone else just break up with them before you move on. I don't think there's such a thing as being in love with multiple people at once.
The whole yeah I got a wife but she doesn't make me happy line that some guys use when they cheat is ridiculous. If you're so unhappy get a divorce. Meanwhile they string along some girl saying that they will leave their marriage and yet it doesn't happen for years and years.
Cheating because you're bf or gf (or spouse) cheated on you is really lame too. Two wrongs don't make a right. You're stooping down to their level and why are you still with them if they cheated and betrayed your trust?
2007-11-24 09:03:17 · answer #1 · answered by Carpe DM™ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I dont think so either...Cheating is definately not good. Like I can see if u didnt really care for the person like that... which still kinna dont make it right. But uh...I think if u feel like your gonna cheat, u need to end the relationship. Thats just being considerate of that person and not wasting their time. Now if ur with someone who u truly care for, I really dont think cheating is right at all. Thats the problem nowadays is nobody knows how to stay true to one another. And then when people get older and wiser and had all they fun...then they wanna start lookin for love but its too late cuz u already lost that person who really cared for you. And True Love only comes by once in a lifetime. Wake Up People, Gees! Stop the Cheatin. We need more real love in this world, its dyin. And then people wonder why everyone is so unhappy in this world. Can I get a witness up in here???
2007-11-24 09:15:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it shows lack of respect not only in the person doing the cheating,(no selfrespect) but more so the one being cheated on.. I agree, end what obviously is not the right thing for either one of them... Hurting someone that much can not be justified in my eyes.. Shows a tremendous amount of immaturity and selfishness OH,,and lets not forget the ability to lay down with another person and completely block you out of their mind... WOW,, How could that ever be Justified.????
2007-11-24 09:21:55 · answer #3 · answered by dixidamit 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it's never justified. The only thing that I could think of that would not be a reason for a break up is if someone else very strongly came on [like kissing], but your s/o pushed them away. Some may think that's cheating just because something actually happened, but it's not really to me.
2007-11-24 09:06:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think cheating is EVER right... If u love someone physically, mentally, and emotionally, why would your interests be lookin else where and stuck in a position where cheating is possible. It really messes up a relationship and I don't understand how people can be so forgiving over it. Diseases and all other kinds of drama form from being unfaithful.
2007-11-24 09:04:40 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
cheating is for loosers who don't have the guts to end a relationship like a civilized human, and they obviously have some kind of mental issue. Ask a cheater if it would bother them to be cheated on and I bet they say it would bother them!!!!!
2007-11-24 09:09:03 · answer #6 · answered by stumped 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's only ok if you are one of the most selfish people on the planet or you are a coward and are too much of a wimp to end the relationship and move on.
2007-11-24 09:06:13 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa W 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depens on the maturity and sexual experience of the person cheating he/she might just want to **** someone else but dosen't want to end the relationship. If you are the cheated on it is hard to imagine that he/she wants anyone but you
2007-11-24 09:04:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
insecure people cheat. (even the vain ones thats why they are vain cos they try hard to look so damn good cos they are insecure).
they devalue their looks and so when someone pays them attention they get a buzz from it thats why they cheat and then say i never meant it... the saddo mother suckers.
2007-11-24 09:05:36 · answer #9 · answered by AnswerGeek 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, no justification. If you don't want to be in the relationship, they should be a bigger person and break up with their partner.
2007-11-24 09:04:47 · answer #10 · answered by humanbeforeamerican 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋