i've known this women for about 5 months now and i feel for her really hard, so we talked the other night and shes not interested in a relationship so im wondering if anyone has any good tips on how to get over her, this past weekened was good because all my friends came home from college so that was a nice relief but after they all leave she is the only one at home whom i talk to and hang out with so its been difficult
thanks for the tips
2007-11-24 08:21:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanks man im spelling everything correctly and using correct usage you can understand what im saying im not saying "dis dat Lyke" etc so thanks for answering my question and correcting my punctuation that was the heart of my question, idiot
2007-11-24 08:26:07 · update #1
im not 21 so i cant try the bar thing
its hard though cause i see her every sunday even if i dont want to because im friends with her roomate and we hang out every sunday to watch football
and i dont wanna ignore her etc because shes an amazing person i dont wanna lose our friendship because of it
2007-11-24 08:34:18 · update #2
be patient honey! meanwhile be busy with something creative.
2007-11-24 08:32:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The friend thing a tough one. Having to accept that the person you have romantic feelings for doesn't feel the same is a lonely place to be. If shes the person you spend the majority of your free time with, getting over her wont be easy. Try giving giving your self some time away from her, but don't just sit at home. Go out of town for the weekend, or look into local volunteer its a great way to meet other people.
2007-11-24 16:32:55 · answer #2 · answered by Jinx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No need to apologize for ur writing, this is a freestyle type of site and manny people here that dont have nothing to do criticize all day long.
First of all you are normal, for some reason we have a natural tendency to want love and when it does not happen as expected we get wounded. What's not normal is when we bask in our pain. Your job now is to work on you. Start reading books, start taking your self out to dinner and lunch, you will start looking at your self differently.
In other words start investing in your self, that way the next go round you will not give all of you away, you would have learn to save a piece of you in case thing do not work out. Love is a lesson and until you truly love you, the person you truly want will not show up
hope this helps.
2007-11-24 16:36:21 · answer #3 · answered by butterfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on what kind of a person you are, you could go one of 2 ways....
You could go on a bender and just rebound like crazy, or alternatively, you can be patient. Getting over someone is never easy, and sometimes the thing to do is just take it one day at a time, and one day you will wake up and it wont hurt too bad. When you get to that point, you will be ready to move on.
You could also find a hobby, join a group, club, etc, so you can meet new people, and so you don't spend all your time dwelling on her.
2007-11-24 16:30:40 · answer #4 · answered by cindy o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep busy, don't talk to her and stay away. You can't get over someone if you spend time with them. Ask other friends if they can set you up with someone else. Go out to bars and try to meet other girls, that will be the quickest way to get over someone.
2007-11-24 16:30:47 · answer #5 · answered by Nora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy go out and meet a new girl, stay friends with the other one. Make other friends too.
2007-11-24 16:28:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get sombody else. There's a lot of people out there.
2007-11-24 16:29:55 · answer #7 · answered by Bob H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not an adult but do things that will get her off your mind!
2007-11-24 16:25:27 · answer #8 · answered by Nina. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
periods are your friends- use them at the end of a sentance... PLEASE
2007-11-24 16:24:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋