2007-11-24 07:44:58 · 13 answers · asked by pocket aces 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she was upfront about it and we haven't started dating yet
2007-11-24 08:06:57 · update #1
I would. However, I would be hesitant if she was trying to hide it.
2007-11-24 07:55:02 · answer #1 · answered by Micah H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I used to be a bouncer at a gentlemen's club and I haven't met a dancer yet who wasn't either A) a drug addict, B) emotionally unstable, C) abused at one point in their life, or D) is just plain slutty. Usually it's a combination of two or more problems. One leads to another and on and on. Don't buy into the "I'm just doing this to pay for college" line either. Chances are they could go to Harvard, yet the money either goes up their nose or in their veins. It seems like a novel idea, but I'd stay away.
2007-11-24 15:53:23 · answer #2 · answered by John 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends if they were honest to you since the beginning if they were topless stripper. If they were then no one has the right to judge and theres nothing wrong with dating her. If you had to find out for yourself and she tried to keep it from you then you should seriously consider before dating someone who lied about something like that considering you dont know what other things she lied to you about
2007-11-24 15:51:10 · answer #3 · answered by Ms_Apple_Bttmz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to be looking for opinions to something you can only answer... If you are talking about "dating JUST her", better be a confident guy... If you guys hit it off, there is the factor that you have to deal with every nasty old man having his mouth on your girls "stuff" 3 nights a week... If you could give a **** less, then go for it.... I have dated strippers, but NEVER exclusive.
2007-11-24 15:51:35 · answer #4 · answered by Chris M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL! My brother did, and he thought it was great, except he couldn't get over guys hitting on her all the time, esp. once they found out what she did for a living, and it quickly became a nightmare for him. It ended badly after a lot of drama, but that had a lot to do with their personalities. Good Luck!
2007-11-24 15:50:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I would want to know early on in our relationship - but as a guy who appreciates the beauty of a woman's body, I would have no problem with her making a living by showing her beauty.
2007-11-25 17:11:17 · answer #6 · answered by DB32 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I no some strippers and thay are doing it for the money only. Thay are good people to.
2007-11-24 15:53:48 · answer #7 · answered by patches 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will tell you what employees of these places tell me.
don,t get serious about any of them.
the ones i know are totally unfaithful and lie like a rug.
one dancer once told me a customer she has known for
years told him all dancers are alike. he told her the truth.
they are users, and one manager of a club once told me if
you get involved with one you will pay for it emotionally,
financially or both.
every man i know, myself included has gotten burned by
these girls although these are nice decent men.
i would drop her like a hot rock and spare yourself
a lot of grief and heartache.
2007-11-24 15:56:39 · answer #8 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i' m a girl but i think is racism to date or not sby because of his/her profession.if this person is compatible with you and he/she makes you feel fine,profession or age or anything else don't really matter.
2007-11-24 15:58:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HECK YEAH!... im kidding, it depends on if i learn when we are dating or before
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2007-11-24 15:48:39 · answer #10 · answered by shenaynay222 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋