we r only in the 7th grd. and at a private school? i am have scared and upset.
2007-11-24 07:39:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is just a big pick for you! If you are not ready for the sex, just turn down the date or if you want to go on the date, just put out the point that you are not ready for SEX. This is not unusual. Alot have to be ready to do things when they want to, not just because someone else wants to. JUST BE CAREFUL AND THINK OF YOURSELF!!!
2007-11-24 07:45:03 · answer #1 · answered by backyardbum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off in 7th grade ur lik 13/14 so u REALLY SHUDNT HAVE SEX ur faaaaaaar too young. plus u hav to think of the consequenes: 1) u might get pregnant
2) ull b known as a s*l*u*t
3) stds
4) hes just using u for sex saying as he just asked u got
stay away from him
2007-11-24 07:58:17 · answer #2 · answered by roniloveu15 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My dear child, you are a child please for the sake of God don't do it. You are with a boy who is not thinking. His harmones are going crazy. It would be only an act. It has nothing to do with love. You should save yourself for when you are married. The act of making love is not meant to be played with. Get away from that boy as fast as your little feet can carry you. He does not respect you, or himself. He only sees you as a sex object. RUN, RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN. The teenage years are to have fun. What if you get pregnaunt? Are you ready for that? The answer is no. Any boy who ask you as question like that should have his head looked into. I cannot tell you enough, DO NOT DO IT ! ! !
GOD bless you and stay safe.
2007-11-24 07:56:54 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Say no and run don't walk in the other direction. He obviously has an agenda and probably doesn't care who is there to fill it. (No offense to you) He'll simply move on to the next girl who he thinks might fulfill his needs. He's obviously only looking for someone to use. Take pride in yourself and do the right thing for you. Say no.
2007-11-24 07:51:35 · answer #4 · answered by danniemarie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont go through it because you'll have a long way before finding someone to commit your first love to.
And after he gets some what else would give him a reason to stay with you?He'll be like i did her, she's easy, and im go find someone else.
2007-11-24 07:48:09 · answer #5 · answered by BIg MUthfuckin PImpIN CRACKKKK 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm in tha 8th grade and i still havnt had sex. niether should u. especially cuz yall r 2 young. if u think ur ready thin do it but ur risking getting pregnant at tha same time. wat u need 2 do is email me or i.m. me so i can give u personal advice. also, u need 2 turn him down cuz if he asked u that and thin hes gonna ask u out, thin 2 me, that seems like hes only in tha relationship 4 sex.
2007-11-24 07:46:07 · answer #6 · answered by auburn_1994 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if you have sex in the 7th grade you reputation will probably be a slut and your life will mostly likely be messed up. do not go near that boy and do not go out with him.
2007-11-24 07:47:25 · answer #7 · answered by hotdog. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell your mom to call the school and report the boy!
That is very wrong hun and you can get hurt.
Avoid the boy at all costs...
there will be others. NEVER go to his house.
Good luck.
2007-11-24 07:50:32 · answer #8 · answered by mallary21 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Realize they ARE out to use you for sex and WILL dump you pregnant or not after some other girl takes their interest,regardless of whether you are pregnant or not.Tell them no way.
2007-11-24 07:46:35 · answer #9 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whoa!Im in the 6th grade, and I been asked that so many times. say NOOOOOOOOOOOO! KEEP YOUR COOKIES LET HIM STARVE! bOYS ASK ME TO LICK MY PRIVATE PARTS AND IM IN PRIVATE SCHOOL.They touch me in no-no spots. They ask for blow jobs just SAY NO. You would be thankful you did.You dont want to get pregnant. You could e-mail me or i.m me and I could explain a litttle more better.
2007-11-24 07:43:59 · answer #10 · answered by Lady A 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋