Well last night I confronted my Dad about his girlfriend. The main thing I brought up was that she was a gold digger, He kept repeatably buying stuff that he did not need. On the other hand, she is 23, married and dating my Dad who is 52.
"I need to have two men in my life to keep me happy", this is what she said exactly. So I had to ask what if something happens between you and your husband, would you still be with my Dad, while seeking out another man?
Recently my dad has told me that he's most likely going to go back to his old ways of being sad, lonely and a social outcast because he believes that he has no friends. I for one would love to hang out with him, and if he just put himself out there he would have more friends.
I don't know if what I am doing is immoral, I would just like to stop being depressed about the whole situation and to be happy with my dad again.
Could anyone help me out, I don't know what else to turn to.
2007-11-24 06:49:08 · 3 answers · asked by customtppmnn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I think that you and your dad need to sit down and talk things out. You need to tell him that you want to hang out with him more and do things together. Agree on things that you both enjoy doing and just do it. Maybe go out to dinner or something like that. You both want to be happy, and get your mind off of what is happening so do something that makes you happy.
2007-11-24 06:58:27 · answer #1 · answered by iloveyou6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your dad knows what she is like and is under no illusions then let him play it his way. I understand you don't want to see him hurt but if he thinks it's a fair price to pay for a bit of intimacy then fair play to him. You can still hang out with your dad and there is no harm in telling him how it makes you feel and you may feel less depressed if he can explain what he is getting from the fling. One thing you will never ruin is a father and daughter relationship and neither will anyone else. Hope this helps a little.
2007-11-24 15:01:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you should stop acting as a controller to your Dad. Your Dad is matured enough to decide things for himself.You should do your best to restore your earlier cordial friendly relationship with him.You should not have any grudge against his present or future g/fs.
2007-11-25 06:06:22 · answer #3 · answered by yogeshwargarg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋