hi am naveena from a upper middle level family living insouthindia.Am studying B.Sc.My problem:That is regarding my Mom. she is working in a private hospital as a Head NURSE.I suspect she is filtering nowadays.The reasons is because she wear lowhip saree in office and home.My dad also likes it(I have seen dads hand on her) he is working in a star hotel as a managermorning shift and me too like her dressing because It gives her good look and she feels confident but 1)When I went to pick her from the hospital after finishing her nightshift, she told me to wait in reception for 15 min and went to a doctors room. it took beyond 15 min and i gave a alert to her mobile and she came and i noticed some puncture, its of nail spots and some blood spots(in and around her navel).I asked her and she told its because of allergy, and when my dad asked she told its some insect bite, she bluffed.Also at night i noticed she applying burn balm in that area.Is my doubt right.and how can i make her correct
2007-11-24 06:37:08 · 5 answers · asked by First Namenaveena N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I wouldn't jump to conclusions based on that-
I'm sure if your mom was doing something so wrong, she would not do it while you are waiting for her and be so obvious.
Maybe she did have bug bites and had an allergic reaction...
Nail marks around the navel would not be consistent with what you are suspecting anyways...
If you truly think something is happening, maybe you should talk to her and express your concern
I hope everything is ok
2007-11-24 06:46:47 · answer #1 · answered by :) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody applies burn balm on love bites.If she did,it means she really was bit by an insect. Otherwise she would be srceaming mad all over the house. As far as taking time in doctors cabin,maybe requiring to report for the days overall's.
If you dont respect her,dosent mean she does not deserve respect. Liars remember their lies,honest people goof up about such things.Maybe you can offer to help her apply the balm.Does she question you in doubt about your wounds?or does she nurse you back to good health?
get a life!!!
2007-11-24 14:48:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your suspecting your Mom is baseless and unwarranted. Go to any hospital, nurses do have to carryout long conversation with the doctors on various issues.Stop having any such idea in your mind and trust her always. What will happen to you if she starts suspecting each and every actions of yours? Every ones life in the family will become hell. How are you going to controll her if she is in fact having an affair ?
2007-11-25 06:18:56 · answer #3 · answered by yogeshwargarg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi naveen pls make ur mom comfortable in ur home is ur father beats her up or else does he drinks and make ur home hell then try to solve that problem if it not that then talk to ur mom ur well grown up start to understand her feelings advice her in this matter so that she can listen to u and dont do it commanding way ask her in requsting way then u can get it so go ahead becoz itoo have a mom
2007-11-26 23:09:30 · answer #4 · answered by ajay hyderabadi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do smathing with her that SHE likes to do
2007-11-24 14:45:25 · answer #5 · answered by AJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋