have you ever fallen in love with a man younger than you? if so, how did you deal with it?
2007-11-24 06:36:51 · 12 answers · asked by JJ191 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My husband is 5.5 years younger than me! We got together when he just turned 21! We're still together. I love him! We are so close we can finish each other sentences.
Age doesnt make a difference IMO unless its like 20 years and you have NOTHING in common!
You can always find common ground with someone if you want. Just depends on how much time you spend getting to know eachother.
We've been together now for 15 years! Age has NEVER been a factor in anything that comes up within our marriage.
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2007-11-24 06:44:04 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ðñê £ðvê♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I dealt with him on a level that he could understand me. I would not deal with him on his level. I would treat him as if he were my age. Because he wanted to be older than he was. I explained to him it was not;t the age that matter, but is was how you conduct yourself on all levels of life. But sometimes you have to give a little and take a little. No matter how old that person is you will always deal with the younger part of that person. No matter how long you stay together you will always see that he is still growing up.
2007-11-24 14:46:00 · answer #2 · answered by Cynthia M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I havent, but if I did I would deal with it the same way I deal with being with a man my own age or older than me....enjoy every moment of it. I am, of course, assuming you mean as long as he is considered old enough to be in a relationship legally.
2007-11-24 14:40:26 · answer #3 · answered by Scooter_The_Squirrels_Wifey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, i delt with it by just telling my true friends, and just staying really good friends with the younger guy. At my school we get made fun of for stuff like that, but still, i liked him a lot and we just became really good friends instead. I think that if you love him this much you shouldn't care about what people would say and just go for it. If he doesn't like you oh wel. At least you got it off your chest!
2007-11-24 14:43:33 · answer #4 · answered by Unknown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i did. age didnt matter to us. it was communication, compatability and things that we have in common. As long as we were happy with each other and felt the same feelings it was good. Just be sure that you take things very slowly and be sure that both of you really are ready for what is going to come your way. It will be hard for others will see things much different than the two of you will
2007-11-24 14:42:20 · answer #5 · answered by biglady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had crushes on guys that are younger than me. I'm on my first love and he is older (by 2 months!)
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2007-11-24 14:40:47 · answer #6 · answered by Frannipop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i havent but i think it all depends on how much younger and how much you like him, if he's only one or two years younger then i dont think it much matters, usually guys date girls younger than them, or so it seems. i dont think it makes much of a difference.
2007-11-24 14:43:18 · answer #7 · answered by Living life, and Loving it! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i honestly think age isnt anything but a number.
unless, hes WAYY younger or WAYY older, but if its like
a year thats fine.
but if you like him, you like him.
dont let his age get inbetween you.
people dont like younger guys because theyre "immature"
but really, if you like him, but your freaking out cas his age,
doesnt that make you a lil "immature"
i mean as long as its not like your a child molester.
idk, i'd say go for it,
and good luck (:
2007-11-24 14:41:59 · answer #8 · answered by michellexthai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age does not matter once the both of you connect this is all that is important.
2007-11-24 14:41:29 · answer #9 · answered by Firebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah but all my friendz said it was gross
i don't see a prob with it although it depends on how much younger
Hope this helps! =)
2007-11-24 14:41:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋