Imagin you have a girl friend,and she loves you. The problem is that she wants to have sex but I dont want to do that cause I thinks its kind of taking advantage of her. Do you think I should do it tooooooo?
2007-11-24 05:26:26 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, you should wait until you're completely ready and okay with what you may potentially do.
2007-11-24 05:29:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is just that sex. If you love her then you will wait until it is right for both of you. Then it won't be sex it will be making love. And remember if after a romantic evening things start to progress and she then is feeling like she is not ready then stop. Don't push for it and don't force it. As frustrated as you may be it will be so much better and you won't regret it if you are both ready.
2007-11-24 13:31:08 · answer #2 · answered by Gina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time and don't let any one PUSH you into sex before you are ready...
Her acceptance and approval of you needs to be Unconditional and not based on how fast she gets SEX..Slow her down and tell her to wait...
If she does not respect your boundaries..Shes' not worth getting to know...Tell her you want to get to know Her first not her SEX...
Theres plenty of time for that later once you find out where the relationship is going...
Good luck....
2007-11-24 13:30:48 · answer #3 · answered by Dog Rescuer 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think that God will not be ok with it, don't have sex with her until you are married with her, it is the better way to show her you love her and respect her.
2007-11-24 13:30:13 · answer #4 · answered by Patrick "Paddy" Murphy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow,usually its the guy that wants the sex! Go with your heart.
2007-11-24 13:29:26 · answer #5 · answered by Young 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your not talking advantage of her if she wants to have sex just remember to be safe use a condom
2007-11-24 13:30:16 · answer #6 · answered by bright 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that's great that u don't what 2 have sex. If u don't want 2 and she keep's pressuring u dump her.
2007-11-24 13:28:52 · answer #7 · answered by Lissa 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it depends on a lot of things yer age how long u have been together. if she want to then yer not takin advantage of her. talk to her bout it
2007-11-24 13:33:32 · answer #8 · answered by J-bean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gina and Dog Rescuer r right.
2007-11-24 13:31:00 · answer #9 · answered by I dont care 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if shes wants 2 have sex with you its nt takin advantage, havin sex with her when shes drunk is takin advantage
2007-11-24 13:29:31 · answer #10 · answered by Luke M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋