I did that over 20 years ago and I still live with the mistake.
2007-11-24 04:53:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
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Yes, I did that many years ago. He was a Canadian, 15 years my senior, and I grew to believe everyone who told me our ages were incompatible, that it would never work. They convinced me that distance also would play a factor. After all, how could I trust a man to be faithful when we lived in different countries?
How wrong we all were.
I've gotten over him, but I've never forgotten him, and how he made me feel. Sometimes at night I still think of him. He was so handsome, with dark hair and blue eyes. A weightlifter's body. And kind. He treated me like a queen, and drove down from London, Ontario every 2 weeks to see me. I must have meant something to him, because our relationship lasted almost 3 years. Then I told him to go.....
EDIT: My friend, I love you dearly, and sometimes my heart aches for you. I am afraid that you are closing your heart to love for fear of being hurt. This I understand, for I too have done the same.
You are a beautiful woman. You have so much to offer, and any man who finally sees this in you will be worth having. Please don't close yourself off to the possibility of having it all. The world is yours if only you believe it.
2007-11-24 05:05:40 · answer #1 · answered by iamnoone 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I haven't let someone walk out, but 6 months ago I did the walking. It was the hardest decision of my life, but I did it because it was the only way to make sure my fiancee wasn't hurt even more. Complicated story that I won't go into, but I can understand how you feel. I still miss her every day and it makes me appreciate how much she meant to me. She was, and still is, the greatest love of my life and an amazing woman.
2007-11-24 05:59:00 · answer #2 · answered by russj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all. And it is better to keep memories of love than to lose those memories. Live your life to be worthy of the same love you lost and you will deserve your love again. But if you become bitter and unlike the loved person you were you will never find the same feeling. I know you! You are a winner. You will have the memories of good the good times forever, and you have already lost the bad memories about what caused your loss. And that is good even though it is painful.
2007-11-24 13:13:03 · answer #3 · answered by Give me Liberty 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I sure have. But I've come to realize, as much as I thought I knew, it just wasn't meant to be. Though I'm living with my mistake, it has made me wiser when looking for something or someone new. I wish you peace in your search. Don't let the past get you down.
2007-11-24 05:00:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It goes both ways. It goes a lot of ways. I'm going through a divorce right now for my wife wanted to move on. 13 years and I'm broken. I don't want it but you cannot control another person. I heard she is already living with another guy and it just rips my guts out!
People - think about what you doing with another person's life!
2007-11-24 05:14:26 · answer #5 · answered by craig b 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I never have, no. I can't think of anyone I would refer to as the love of my life, though. I'm really hoping that a new door is opening for me now, though, and I will do whatever I have to to not let this one slip away!
2007-11-24 05:11:48 · answer #6 · answered by Linz VT•AM 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If i ought to rearrage the alphabet i could positioned U and that i jointly. Is your dad a thief? because of the fact i became into thinking who stole the celebs out of the sky and positioned them on your eyes. Are you drained? Beccause you have been working through my ideas all day. Are you from Tennesse? because of the fact you are the only ten I see. lol My dad has been telling me those
2016-09-30 02:19:53 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In one sense, half the population has done this. Even so, (mortal) man forsakes himself, not God. Love comes. That is the law of Love. The polished brass key here is faith and a radical reliance on Truth. :) We also learn patience.
2007-11-24 05:26:14 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
Now (7 years later) I have remarried and have a new baby girl. Hope you forgive yourself and move on. There is not just one love in your life.
2007-11-24 04:57:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
YES...........
BUT
in turn....Life has been still good...
and God will provide and has !!
Cause not all WE think glitters is Gold.......
we think sometimes it was best when in turn it may not have been...............
and one cant go back and change anything.........
one must just keep moving Foreward...
and as i do with Christ..He will supply all i Need.........
and has and will continue to do so !!
2007-11-24 04:58:34 · answer #10 · answered by hghostinme 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋