How can I make myself look happy?

Question

There is this bully who keeps saying I am never happy and that, is there anyway I can make myself look like I am happy, even though I am.

Answer 1

My professor used to tell us, '' The worst thing than being a loser is to look like one!''... The bully is not your problem. And why do you care anyway how he says about your looks? He is worse than you, a person who causes misery to others are pork! Anyway, the important thing is how you feel inside. The thing is, the opinion of that bully really never matter. Be happy withing yourself. Here the tips I can give you from how i do it and how i look happy:

1. When you walk, donot stoop. Look as if you own the word with the head high.
2. Look directly to the eyes or make eye contact with people who look at you.
3. Smile at them. SMile at your surroundings. Its a new day after all and you have a day's life to enjoy. Smile again.
4. If the bully comes your way, wink at him and grin If he attacks you, fight!
5. ANother approach is to be indifferent. If he speaks to you while walking, continue walking like he or she does not exist in this world. If there is anyone around while he attacks you, talk with anyone else. Why?

The bully needs attention. If you have nothing to give he would leave you alone. One more thing, one good weapon against the people u dont like is INDIFFERENCE!

Answer 2

It sounds like this bully is getting to you and he knows it. Hes trying to bring you down and then get you to deny it which actually will bring you down.

I would say the way to deal with this person is to first acknowledge in your mind that this person is getting to you. Dont let him convince you that that is somehow wrong. Instead of trying to ignore how he effects you, use it as information to learn more about him. Understand that he wants you to feel exactly how he feels. Someone more than likely bullied him the same way hes trying to bully you, and they got to him. Now he sees the same vulnerability in you that he once had in himself, and was bullied for. Do you see how its a cycle? The way to stop it is to understand this cycle and to see that its really not about you, even though hes trying to convince you that it is. At the heart of this, he is suffering and probably resents that your not. The better you can understand this conflicted inner experience of his, the less he will be able to get to you.

In case I havent explained it clearly enough I know a short, 100 page book that explains the psychology of these people in plain language. Its called 'Nasty People' by Jay Carter.

Good luck.

Answer 3

when someone is happy, their usually motivated. some sing, dance, paint pictures, try new things, etc.
people can be happy in their own way and not necessarily
Have to Show it,
Happiness is inside my heart, I don't have to smile like a donkey so that someone else can be happy with me.
personally, I think that being happy is a priority in life and there is no time to play games with this.

If you say your happy it should come from the heart and thats that.

Answer 4

firstly i cant stand a bully,right everytime you see this person just smile at them they will get fed up in the end

Answer 5

i think you shouldn't listen to people ,if you know that you are really a happy person and don't never be alone just share everything with your friends,family.

Answer 6

There is no rational way with a bully. Ignore him.

Answer 7

Always smile at people, and make an effort with your appearance!

Answer 8

ignore the bully. they are pathetic people who are insecure so need to try on pick on other people to try and make themselves feel better

Answer 9

when u look uncomfortable around someone else, they get uncomfortable too. if u act like nothing he does affects u, then u'll seem like ur happy. pretend he's your best friend.

Answer 10

false smiles always look false.
Just imagine the bully sitting in front of you naked, that should make you chuckle.