2007-11-23 20:24:46 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You need to say goodbye to her. Even if you think she can't hear you, she probably can. You jsut being there will be a source of comfort for her.
I am so sorry for your loss...we all loose someone eventually, but it does not make it any easier.
2007-11-23 20:27:55 · answer #1 · answered by Heather 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how much she means to you. Even if she is in a coma or unconscious, she will hear you. If you can't find the words, write a letter and read it to her. This will give you great comfort when she is gone...because you will have told her of the love that you had for her.
Find pictures and videos of family celebrations. Keep them in a special place so you can look at them often once she is gone.
Many people grieve before the loved one dies, knowing what is to come. This is normal...as a matter of fact almost anything is normal because everyone grieves in different ways. Accept that and realize that it might take a long time to deal with the loss.
Two things that were said to me at my father's funeral:
You can still talk to him, he is listening. He will just answer in different ways. It's true. you will feel her presence at certain times and know that Grandma had something to do with what is happening in your life.
The other was:When he was on this earth, he was only with you when you were together, now he is with you, wherever yougo.
2007-11-24 07:19:06 · answer #2 · answered by heartwhisperer2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh I'm so sorry she is leaving! I know you will miss her. Be sure to see her if you can and tell her you love her so much and you will see her when you get to where she is going. Tell her you thank her for the great things she taught you and you will see her soon.
God bless you and your grandma.
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2007-11-24 04:28:34 · answer #3 · answered by a_phantoms_rose 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
spend more time with her and tell her to remember you were ever she will be, and must die knowing that you love her and she loves you. make her laugh maybe for the last time and she will always feel your love and the love of the family that she has
2007-11-24 04:31:10 · answer #4 · answered by prudence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that your grandmother is dying. But it part and parcel of life one has to face this. Spend more time with her and ensure quality life for her. You will have no regret after she pass away.
2007-11-24 04:34:05 · answer #5 · answered by bonbon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
spend as much time as possible with her and support your family. In return you will feel at ease and get support back. I'm very sorry for your very sad news. Hope this helps.
2007-11-24 04:31:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear that. Well, try to spend more time with her, ask what she wants and give it to her so she can enjoy her last time. Camcorder her as much as you can with your family so you can view the memories of her later.
2007-11-24 04:39:12 · answer #7 · answered by Lotus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be there for her! Just tell her how much her life has meant, and how much she means to you. After a long life she wants to know that she has had an impact on who you are today.
2007-11-24 04:27:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
hi, I think you should be with her and share all the happy things that happened. Death is truth and one has to face it. So try to make her happy by staying with her. And share the stories that she used to once tell you.
Bye
2007-11-24 04:28:55 · answer #9 · answered by just2rup 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your closure. Family members never come back, regret never goes away. I learned that the hard way.
2007-11-24 04:29:04 · answer #10 · answered by alwaysmoose 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋