im scared of dying?

Question

i mean..im right now fourteen. and im just freaking out a bit..i have dreams about the earth blowing up...and human extinction..or one day im just going to end up being killed by a maniac...and im just..terrified. please help me..what can i do?

Answer 1

being fourteen is hard enough without having to listen to the ramblings of Jesus lovers, like Cindy!

what you feel is what everyone else feels, that is why some people have religion, to act as a comfort blanket.

The truth about life and death is a frightening concept.but it is inevitable, we all will die at somepoint. Life is for living, dont wast your life woryng about death, for if you do this you are not living.

do you remember b4 you were born? no neither do I, then it is safe to say that you will not know when you die, it will be like a sleep that you never wake up from, thus there is nothing to fear. knowledge is the key to life, you are only 14, you hav plenty of time

Answer 2

The basis of this question is that you feel powerless. Take steps to show yourself that you are not powerless, but have the power to transcend fear.

Once you ask a question, doors open up, and you find books, or articles, or people, that can help you take positive control of your life.

You are quite young...I was fourteen in 1971. My parents had divorced the year before, and my whole universe collapsed. I was terrified, too, but I found the inner strength I needed to get my power back (it never actually left, nor could it leave).

Begin by considering the possibility that you are powerful; your beliefs, emotions, expectations...follow these, until you see a pattern. See how the pattern of your thought attracts events after their own kind. A negative pattern of thought will attract negative events...a positive pattern will attract its own...

Sit quietly, close your eyes, and say: "I live in a safe universe." No matter how it might sound at first, no matter whether or not it makes logical sense to you, repeat this phrase until you get a sense that it must be so, and begin to see results, then you can repeat it with confidence. You will be afraid until you prove to yourself that you are power itself.

Learn that your mind is far more powerful than you presently understand.

Change the way you see the world, and the world you see will change.

Peace.

PS: There is no death, only life. Nothing unreal exists. Only the perfect truth of what you are. Find it. It's right where you are, right now.

Answer 3

Death isn't so bad. Death is just the passing from one world to the next. I am a Christian, and my belief is that after this I go to heaven. I do fear death, in the sense I am afraid of how it will happen and also I fear for the loved ones I leave behind but as for me passing to Heaven.... Not much to be scared of.

I used to be so scared of death, and was so careful. Then I realized that no matter what, I'm gonna die. So now I laugh, live and love like never before and share all the happiness I have with other people and try my best to brighten their days. Life is short, no matter how much time we spend worrying. Enjoy all the time you have, and remember three things no matter what. Live, Laugh and Love.

God Bless.

Answer 4

I don't think there are any plus sides of death you can console yourself with What I would focus on is enjoying life while it is in your hands In regards to your earlier question, I wouldn't sit around wasting time worrying about pimples. That sounds rather odd for a person who's dying. kind thoughts <3

Answer 5

This is when every1 trys to brain wash u into thinking that u never die you will go to heaven or hell, well that's not true there is no god and no life after death u have to have as mush fun as u can on this earth as u can. I only know of two was to live on, (1)- Have a child a little piece of u will always live on (2)- Do something legendary.

Don't be brain washt into all this jesus stuff you will be wasting your only life reading a book.

Answer 6

Don't be scared Hello.

The world has existed for millions of years. Us humans are just stupid little ants and we WON'T destroy the planet. We'll just mess it up a bit. LOL

I was abducted by a man I didn't know when I was twelve. He put me in his car and was driving me somewhere. I won't tell you what he tried to do in that creepy car, but luckily he was driving and couldn't do much.

That day, I was just a little girl. But I made a decision. I decided that no matter WHAT I ever came up against ... I was ALWAYS going to survive. I was going to make damn sure I lived, no matter what happened around me.

I grabbed the car door handle and jumped out of the car. Luckily it had snowed and that cushioned my fall and I rolled toward the curb and lay there a moment. The bad driver had a hand full of my hair but he had to keep going because it was rush hour traffic. I picked myself up and ran in the opposite direction from the traffic, just to put distance between us.

I've been a survivor ever since. I studied kung fu and now I live in one of the busiest, largest cities in Canada. Toronto is safe if you keep your eyes open and decide NOBODY is ever going to hurt you.

Be strong. Be brave. You have a long, long life ahead of you.

Luv.
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Answer 7

I read an nde once. Here's an excerpt:
" I asked if they were absolutely sure there wasn't going to be nuclear war. They reassured me again, and I asked them how they could be so sure. Their response was: "God loves the world.""

http://www.near-death.com/experiences/storm03.html

I liked it.

There are so many things that COULD go wrong, and yet they do not. Have courage! Today, we are alive and talking to one another. That is a good thing. I will say a little prayer for you for courage. We all need that now and then!

Answer 8

Don't give in so easily that's what they want. That's why the fundies invented Hell. It's all Garbage religion is just nonsense to keep you under their control with fear. Death is not a thing to fear. The only thing wrong with death is sometimes you have to endure a little pain prior to death. Death isn't anything to look forward to but it isn't anything to fear either. Live your life and get all the pleasure you passably can out of it. Death is the end, the end of all consciousness. you will be completely unaware that you are dead you will return to dust without any awareness. all awareness ends with life. You are not going to wake up in an everlasting Hell or Heaven. When you die there is just no more. Don't fear death enjoy life. If you are on doper get the hell off.
Kisses Betty B.

Answer 9

Don't ever fear death, it's a natural part of life.

Every day and night, pray to God. Talk to God, and ask him to keep you safe, especially before you go to bed. You can also ask God to give you pleasant dreams. Read your bible, go to church, and do something relaxing and positive before
sleeping... Ask God to Guide you in the right direction.

Also, live a Christ like life, be good and stay out of trouble.

God Bless You.

Answer 10

THE FIRST THING YOU NEEDS TO DO IS TO GETS HOLD ON TO YOUR MIND. Be RATIONAL , thinks about a good things , learnts a lots of whats lives is to you , BE A GOODS INTERPRETATION OF ABOUT WHATEVER IN GENERALS TRUTH. Then , MOST OF ALL , just be a good and better person for the wholes of your lives for you are gonna DIE , sooner or later depends on your CAPABLES MIND & BODY of CREATION SORTS TO BE the loving kind of all creatures. Welllllllll , there's the answer. EDITED : " where you gonna belongs of here and after , DEPENDS ON YOUR SORTS OF YOUR QUALITY ".