he wants there kid to have his and her jeans!!?!!
2007-11-23 18:14:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
i think it's your friends business, and not yours. let them decide whats best for them and stay out of their sex/future family life... otherwise you may loose a friend.
2007-11-23 18:18:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
She should take her hubby to a specialist and find out why and what are the options? Turkey baster? P-tree dish? Test tube? My husband was told by all the doctors he couldn't have kids either. We have three now. Sometimes it still works out naturally without extra steps. They need to walk through the options with the doctor and then relax. It will work out somehow.
Actually it has been proven that as soon as couples thinking they couldn't have kids and choose to adopt end up getting pregnant before the adopted kid comes. Instant family!
2007-11-23 18:32:34 · answer #2 · answered by Gretchen K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless he is a Eunic, there are lots of ways to have children.
All you need is one healthy sperm cell to fertilise an egg. It is not that difficult.
If he has no sperms cells at all, then the other way is to have children with a sperm donor. One option is for his father or brother to be the sperm donor. The reason is that then the children will have 50% her genes, and at least 25% of his.
Or perhaps he just doesn't want to have children and is making up an excuse, in which case he can be traded in for husband number 2.
2007-11-23 18:26:39 · answer #3 · answered by flingebunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have u tried IVF or surrogacy? That is the only thing I can think of. I feel bad that ur husband does not want to adopt. There are alot of kids needing two loving people to care and provide for them.
2007-11-24 05:54:21 · answer #4 · answered by a healing adoptee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't it obvious? If he's capable of producing sperm, that can be extracted and placed into an egg. When a strong embryo forms, it is placed into his wife. They can freeze several embryos- rent to keep them frozen is cheap; around $10/month. They can use them when they wish. There are legal ramifications- who gets the embryos if they separate? Does one support the other using them if one parent passes away? It will be very expensive and time consuming, but there are ways. Also, it's "genes."
"Jeans" are denim pants. Actually, while we're at it, it's "doesn't," "should," and "their"- the word "there" refers to a place that's not "here."
2007-11-23 18:24:16 · answer #5 · answered by Lovey 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Does she love him enough to let go of such a big thing to her.And does he really love her to deny what her hearts desire is?He is not really being very fair on her and quite selfish as it seems that she has looked at adopting and to him thats not good enough.i hope the best for your friend
2007-11-23 19:21:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sure their jeans will fit? Just kidding, but really, they should look into maybe a sperm donor.
2007-11-23 18:25:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have her drop me an email. I'm sure we can work something out.
He can watch if he wants! I'll wear his jeans, too!!!
Good luck!
2007-11-23 18:18:41 · answer #8 · answered by Big Papa 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
as long as she does not want to cuddle I will do my part to help them out
2007-11-23 18:16:37 · answer #9 · answered by Biker4Life 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
It really depends on why he can't have kids....
2007-11-23 18:17:45 · answer #10 · answered by Lauren D 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋