2007-11-23 15:19:01 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
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2007-11-23 15:21:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 7⤋
Hon,I know exactly what you are feeling. I lost my mother on 11/5/04 and to this date,it is still fresh in my mind. I wake up every single day hoping this was a bad dream but reality sets in and I start to sob. Your grief is still fresh,you have every right to feel the way you do. Your heart will eventually will heal in time and you will have the memory of your mom near you. She will always be around you, from the morning you wake up, to when you go to bed. Don't be afraid to talk to her as well.
My condolences to you!
2007-11-24 00:03:44 · answer #2 · answered by fairydust52606 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know the circumstances, but let me let you in on a little secret. Your mom will come to you. But you have to be open minded about it. My brother died in a motorcycle accident when he was 20. We went to the hospital to see him immediately. He was brown from his liver being destroyed, and laying on the table, even though unconscious, he looked to be in terrible pain. The only part of him I could get near was his shoulder, which was vividly white from an old scar. I wanted to hug him so bad. I was like a mother to him, and had been since the day he was born. But I didn't want to cause him more pain, so I didn't hug him. They took him to the operating room, and I never saw him again. I was deep in grief for a couple weeks. I kept running it through my mind, how I just wanted one more hug. One night, while dreaming, he physically broke through my dream. He was healthy looking and peaceful looking. He said,"Here's your hug, Cheryl!" And I hugged him. Then he was gone. I was awake. I didn't dream him. I've talked to many others who have had similar things happen to them, and many times while they were sleeping. You will see your mom again, and it will bring you peace. Bless you.
2007-11-23 23:52:54 · answer #3 · answered by Cheryl P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a hard time esp when someone very dear to you died. My dad died 4 yrs ago so I can relate. What I've heard from the old folks, souls usually hang around where they were when they're still alive. I'm sure that your mother knows/aware that you & your siblings misses her a lot. Pray for her soul, it will help her & in turn your mother will also help you on your troubles/problems by her praying for her kids too.
2007-11-23 23:31:09 · answer #4 · answered by nicensimplejuls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Hang in there and know that she is in your heart and your mind and will always always be with you no matter what. Know that she will want you to go on living as if she was always there with you. Take care and again I am really sorry your mom passed away. Peace.
2007-11-23 23:48:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Just because you cant see her... You can, sometimes, feel her. Know she is still watching out for you and still loves you and wants you to remember the happiness that you had with her. The time will come when you will see her again.
2007-11-23 23:22:17 · answer #6 · answered by Abolir Las Farc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will always be near you . Just look inside your heart. Get on your knees and ask God to help . He may not remove it but he will cary you through it. Jesus said I will be with you always , even until the end of the world . Lean on Him
2007-11-23 23:24:13 · answer #7 · answered by teronman 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I totally believe she is. If you try to relax yourself at bedtime + clear your mind of everything stressful (I know it will be terribly hard) then think of your mom + see if she comes to you in your sleep. Pray for her to reach heaven, ask God to take care of you + help you thru. God has mercy on those that Mourn.
"The angels are always near to those who are grieving, to whisper to them that their loved ones are safe in the hand of God. ~Quoted in The Angels' Little Instruction Book by Eileen Elias Freeman, 1994" http://www.quotegarden.com/sympathy.html
If you have family, husband, lean on them for support + mourn with them. Keep your head up + have courage for the road you are about to take. Prayers to you.
2007-11-24 00:03:39 · answer #8 · answered by toobingaddict 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will always be near you.. and always in your heart. I lost my mom a few years ago and of course it's always gonna be a sensitive subject but time makes it easier.
2007-11-23 23:24:24 · answer #9 · answered by Psychocollector 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I'm So sorry for your loss!
She'll Always be near to you, but she must also move on!
May God Bless you and keep you with peace.
2007-11-23 23:46:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course she is still near youyou just need time to get through the grieving process remember time heals all wounds
2007-11-23 23:21:23 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋